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Friends With Benefits?

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Legit
Posts: 1411 - Karma: 28
I have a friend who started an non emotional sexual relationship with one of his female friends. Wondering what other people think of getting laid without a realationship, sounds good to me.
Jun 12 2006 8:23PM
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Tom.
Posts: 1954 - Karma: 12
that has to be unhealthy in some way...
Jun 12 2006 8:23PM
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Nihiriju
Posts: 2061 - Karma: 27
we discussed it in phil class, as long as both fo you can be completly un jelous its okey
Jun 12 2006 8:24PM
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skogenjake
Posts: 6685 - Karma: 511
no matter what you think. it wont work.

its so damn tempting. so do it anyways. just you have to know its going to end. usually badly.

and its always worth it.

so many memories.
Jun 12 2006 8:25PM
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--Daniel--
Posts: 1248 - Karma: 8
well it will be fine for a while but what happens when one of them wants to go out with someone else. the other will be jealous and probably a little hurt, because if they are close enough to be sexual with each other, there has to be some kind of romantic feelings between them. i think it is a bad idea, friends with benifits doesnt workout a lot of the time.
Jun 12 2006 8:26PM
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ski_cartel
Posts: 6598 - Karma: 18
its worth it, but it ends badly
Jun 12 2006 8:27PM
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Aliant
Posts: 215 - Karma: 10
lol i know this girl and her boyfriend dumped her and say lets just be friends.. with benefits that is

horny basterd.
Jun 12 2006 8:27PM
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skogenjake
Posts: 6685 - Karma: 511
im just preparing you. you're going to get called a slut.

personally i dont feel that way. i say power to you. if you were a guy, you would be "a total g" or something. so keep it going, just worry about what other girls will say. ive seen mean girls. watch out there.
Jun 12 2006 8:34PM
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r5tommy
Posts: 3608 - Karma: 89
well im pretty sure thats slutty^ but uhh ya friends with benefits is neat, its just a tough balancing act tryign to get her not to like you too much, while her still liking you enough to get groovy
Jun 12 2006 8:34PM
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fappy
Posts: 2960 - Karma: 15
no trust me, its all bullshit it never works out in the end.

i had a friend who i have known for more than 12 years, and senior year we started hanging out more and and more and everntually hooking up on a weekly basis. it eneded up with her telling me that her dad said he would love to take an ax to my head. no joke. its a shame too cause we were such good friends. i dont really talk to her anymore, so it definetly sucked. id change it all back in a second if i could
Jun 12 2006 8:41PM
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wonderbread00
Posts: 135 - Karma: 10
Okay. Heres the truth from a girls point of view. Its so fun.... until one of you gets attached (meaning the girl. And 99% do) And then they get all needy and you pretty much break their hearts. And they get all jelous about other girls.
Jun 12 2006 9:08PM
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Mat.
Posts: 7167 - Karma: 94
the girl gains feelings for you at some point, then it gets all lame.
Jun 12 2006 9:16PM
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Luc.
Posts: 7540 - Karma: 59
i have a guy firend that...oh fuck i just cant sau it...
Jun 12 2006 9:19PM
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SteezePatrol
Posts: 10281 - Karma: 36
I just sent you an invite to the ladies men
Jun 12 2006 9:20PM
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wonderbread00
Posts: 135 - Karma: 10
^?
Jun 12 2006 9:20PM
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CTD
Posts: 6300 - Karma: 348
bad idea. i mean, i suppose its a GOOD idea, but they dont work out very well. my last relationship started off like this, and its definatly not worked out quite as planned. fun for a while, but people grow on you, and the first time somethin happens between the other and someone else shit hits the fan. if its a monogomous, but just-sex relationship, thats fine, and actually alot of fun, and it keeps things fairly uncomplicated. so my vote, if its just people hookin up on a reg basis, but not without hittin up other people, things can get bad. but if its just two people hangin out and fuckin, its usually all good.
Jun 12 2006 9:24PM
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hoodratz47
Posts: 11992 - Karma: 9,212
ITS WHAT LIFE IS ABOUT>>>>>> BOOTYBUDDIES 4LYFE
Jun 12 2006 9:27PM
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cracko
Posts: 2904 - Karma: 12
WOW SLUT
Jun 12 2006 9:31PM
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jimmychung
Posts: 6857 - Karma: 25
never works. i know people who have tried, and i've heard of other tries, and it just never works. one of them will end up liking the other, but the other won't like them back, and it will just kill the friendship. i'd never risk it.
Jun 12 2006 9:41PM
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AtomicTweaker
Posts: 2341 - Karma: 16
i really dont know what to say to that...
Jun 12 2006 9:44PM
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killabees
Posts: 8558 - Karma: 494
sounds good to me
Jun 12 2006 9:47PM
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CalShralpGirl
Posts: 449 - Karma: 12
If you can make it work, then it's fine, as long as both members of the FWB relationship know that that is exactly what it is-as soon as someone wants to change it, or "take it to the next level" then problems can come up. Establish it as just friends, then there's nothing wrong with it.
Jun 12 2006 10:03PM
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Mat.
Posts: 7167 - Karma: 94
shut up faggot, you trying to get more girls to act all shitty and put away to themselves?

do you even care?
no you dont.
and if you COULD even get any from her you WOULD

so dont be an idiot.




we need more chicks like you out there huntachick.
Jun 12 2006 11:05PM
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MitchPee
Posts: 8871 - Karma: 1,510
precisely
Jun 12 2006 11:07PM
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SkiCrzy
Posts: 1211 - Karma: 10
thats cool, just dont get attached
Jun 12 2006 11:08PM
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Frostfired
Posts: 3090 - Karma: 35
i call it freinds with privalages
i no a couple of people who are fuckbuddies i personaly wouldnt do that
Jun 12 2006 11:15PM
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squibble
Posts: 4569 - Karma: 104
it would work, but the only way would be if they were a summer friend with priveledges because then during the school year you could do whatever and then summer you could chill with her
Jun 13 2006 12:10AM
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Scratch*my*Back
Posts: 8334 - Karma: 160
i have had the same friends with benefits for two years. let me tell you something about it.

him and i, we have good sex. but really, there is no passion, no anticipation, cuz fuck...i know im gonna get laid.

he's one of my closest friends. we have sex. then we lie in bed and talk about who we like...talk about some personal issues...we snuggled naked. he's great.

but i recently cut him off from sexual activity because im just not feeling it anymore. honestly. there is no excitement there. i'd rather be single and on the look out for my next great relationship than have a friends with benefits anymore.

there were no complications with him and i, everything has been great all along. but regardless, it's not that same. He's the only person i've had sex with that I haven't really really cared about and I can honestly say it's just not the same at all. It's interesting at first cuz it's kinda wrong. but after a while it gets old and boring.
Jun 13 2006 12:14AM
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FUUUCK
Posts: 18426 - Karma: 4,888
wow you actually made that work for more than a year? i respect that a lot
Jun 13 2006 12:16AM
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Scratch*my*Back
Posts: 8334 - Karma: 160
ahah no he's not an NSer ;)
Jun 13 2006 12:17AM
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eastAR5
Posts: 15084 - Karma: 730
i did that for 3 days but she said she felt awkward seeing me all her classes
Jun 13 2006 12:18AM
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