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Being the Nice Guy

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InfernoHits
Posts: 4755 - Karma: 192
Being the nice kid fucking sucks. I was supposed to room with my friend at college next year in a house. I got offered to stay with these 2 other kids and I said no becuase I promised my friend. A week later he goes in with a different group of people so I got fucked.
My senior prom I was offered in a limo and house with my friends but I told my other friends I'd go with them befor ehtat. So I said no the the offer and then got fucked over again.
There is this girl I like a ton and she has a boyfriend and always fights with hima nd cries and I am always there for her and shit and she just takes advantage of it.
What I am saying is be an asshole, you'll be happier, you'll have a place to live, and you'll get the girl.
Jan 18 2006 8:21PM
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Edward.
Posts: 9366 - Karma: 445
i dont like being the nice guy sometimes
Jan 18 2006 8:22PM
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^NewYork
Posts: 2050 - Karma: 13
once i pulled over to help a guy change a tire and when i was leaning over he stabbed me in the liver
Jan 18 2006 8:24PM
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Ghst
Posts: 5820 - Karma: 10
So true.
Jan 18 2006 8:25PM
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010
Posts: 1427 - Karma: 13
dont be an asshole. just stand up for yourself, and dont let anyone walk over you. especially girls. they will take advantage of you for as long as you will put up with it. just come straight out and say "stop taking advantage of me." but at the same time, still be there for her. do the same with your friends. tell them not to dick you out when they said that they would include you. you'll be okay in the end. the nice guy does win in the end. trust me.
Jan 18 2006 8:25PM
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Lateralis
Posts: 1228 - Karma: 331
im never a fucken asshole and thats the truth. in real life ive never freaked out on anyone even though i should of many many times i just never have but its fucken coming. i got so much anger built up inside and its starting to show and i know im gonna release it soon
Jan 18 2006 8:25PM
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^NewYork
Posts: 2050 - Karma: 13
release it through you cock. and make sure to get it on video
Jan 18 2006 8:26PM
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--Binger--
Posts: 724 - Karma: 10
yea being nice only screws u, when ur a dick, u just screw everyone else
Jan 18 2006 8:26PM
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therealshiznaz
Posts: 234 - Karma: 10
I know where you're coming from, it happens all the time, I just wish sometimes that I was more of an asshole and didn't care about other people and just looked out for myself...I would probably be a lot happier
Jan 18 2006 8:26PM
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.John.
Posts: 6943 - Karma: 14
you won't be happy, because you'll know that you are a dick. the nice guy wins because he can live with himself
Jan 18 2006 8:27PM
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Ski_Unit_19
Posts: 8188 - Karma: 38
wise words
Jan 18 2006 8:29PM
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skirbrt88
Posts: 1090 - Karma: 23
theres three kinds of people in this world, pussies, assholes and dicks...
Jan 18 2006 8:32PM
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^NewYork
Posts: 2050 - Karma: 13
there are not 3 there are 4, the gigantic slimey black cock. which is me
Jan 18 2006 8:35PM
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JamesB
Posts: 1461 - Karma: 11
haha word
Jan 18 2006 8:49PM
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Snowcase
Posts: 11456 - Karma: 634
i'm the nice guy but i have a way of persuading some people
Jan 18 2006 8:51PM
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.John.
Posts: 6943 - Karma: 14
seriously, if you are just nice to people, you will get 10 times farther in life. mean people aren't happy, that's why they are mean
Jan 18 2006 8:55PM
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sKILOve07
Posts: 3482 - Karma: 9
I say... be the asshole, next time and see where it gets you.. but again, you're stories are always so interesting and entertaining
haha
Jan 18 2006 9:02PM
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skiwoj
Posts: 2286 - Karma: 52
i hate being the nice guy, i always get screwed over on stuff but every time i try to not be the nice guy i end up gettin screwed over ayways, but oh well what r ya gonna do
Jan 18 2006 9:12PM
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Sharpy
Posts: 7596 - Karma: 19
this thread is so lame. Maybe if you stopped crying about your life and strated being assertive and showign self confidence you wouldnt get walked over all the time
Jan 18 2006 9:50PM
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Von
Posts: 4869 - Karma: 21
ohh god lat is gonna kill someone
Jan 18 2006 9:59PM
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Jessbuff
Posts: 2685 - Karma: 17
And dicks fuck pussies. But they also fuck assholes, cuz an asshole is only and inch and a half away from being a pussy...

That being said, you gotta be moderate. Not the nicest guy but not the biggest asshole. Somewhere in the middle lies the optimal personality where by you don't screw other ppl around but you get what you want too.
Jan 18 2006 10:23PM
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MistaSkier
Posts: 1781 - Karma: 17
Everybody in here considers himself the nice guy, so obviously some of us are wrong...
Jan 18 2006 10:58PM
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Tinga
Posts: 11349 - Karma: 2,333
neh i get taken advantage a lot too it sucks but in the end youll reap the profits im starting to its pretty cool and you may not know it but people think higher of you than you think
Jan 18 2006 11:00PM
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KeegLove
Posts: 10166 - Karma: 55
nice guys finish first!...or last...i forget which one it is....at least they finish!
Jan 18 2006 11:05PM
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Lateralis
Posts: 1228 - Karma: 331
fucken right man. you have no idea how bad i just wanna beat the hell out of someone
Jan 18 2006 11:12PM
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skifree919
Posts: 5842 - Karma: 35
so true so true. I got off a DUI for being polite and honest with a cop. And i was underage. And I'm relaly really really really glad i didn't get arrested cause i would have been sooo fucked.

But, being the nice guy does sometiems get old, but in the end it will be better. Girls are retarded and go for assholes most of the time, but hey if they are going for assholes you probably shoulnd't be with them anywyas. Well thats defintely not true but oh well.
Jan 18 2006 11:17PM
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switched
Posts: 417 - Karma: 10
"Those who humble themselves will be exalted."

"Those who exalt themselves will be humbled."
Jan 18 2006 11:21PM
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back_woods
Posts: 1579 - Karma: 10
yeah thats definitly not true. Nice guys have pondered this question since the first ape fell out of trees (nice apes I guess), and the fact is, we can't figure it out, girls dig assholes. Girls say they dont, but c'mon, you know you do. And why?, well they're just not telling.
Jan 18 2006 11:23PM
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GhostfaceKillah
Posts: 3398 - Karma: 10
its because assholes are usually only nice when they are in a relationship, while nice people are nice all the time, so girls see no need to attempt to manipulate them
Jan 18 2006 11:37PM
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spo14
Posts: 285 - Karma: 10
hahah yeah do that
Jan 18 2006 11:42PM
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Mrkguru12
Posts: 1661 - Karma: 10
i've always wanted to get into a fight. like a real fight. the kind where you hit people and stuff. you know what im saying? with like fists and punching? like where your real mad? and you just smack their face? that kind. i'm just too kind.
anyone want to fight?
Jan 18 2006 11:45PM
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Jessbuff
Posts: 2685 - Karma: 17
You sound like a bit of a wuss, so uhhh, yea, I'm down for a little scrap. 3 o'clock at the flag pole punk.
Jan 19 2006 12:01AM
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Lateralis
Posts: 1228 - Karma: 331
ill fucken fight him
Jan 19 2006 10:25AM
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public_enemy720
Posts: 278 - Karma: 10
yeah some times it can suck to be the nice guy
Jan 19 2006 10:27AM
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beefbud
Posts: 3323 - Karma: 13
man you just gotta be super confrontational and start fighting everyone, like kicking anyone in the throat who gives you a bad look.
Jan 19 2006 10:32AM
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Badfish2
Posts: 3453 - Karma: 21
I would suggest not trying to please everyone all the time and start looking out for yourself just a little bit.
Jan 19 2006 11:07AM
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Timmy_G
Posts: 3735 - Karma: 15
Yea, nice guys finish last.
Jan 19 2006 11:10AM
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RedbAss
Posts: 352 - Karma: 10
When your a pussy everyone screws you....
Jan 19 2006 12:39PM
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T]-[C
Posts: 103 - Karma: 10
I usually end up going for the nice guy. so be nice!
Jan 19 2006 12:42PM
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Sharpy
Posts: 7596 - Karma: 19
nice guy = wuss who doesnt get what he wants

asshole = guy who knows what he wants and gets it, doesnt matter if it fucks some people up

girls go for the asshole because he exudes confidence and makes the girl feel wanted. Plus they dont control the asshole. Girls hate whipped guys (nice guys usually end up coming off as whipped).
Jan 19 2006 2:43PM
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Snowcase
Posts: 11456 - Karma: 634
yea but what do you look like? if you're fat and ugly then who cares?
Jan 19 2006 3:10PM
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T]-[C
Posts: 103 - Karma: 10
dude, what the fuck is wrong with you? I'm neither fat, nor ugly, so go fuck yourself
Jan 19 2006 3:17PM
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Jessbuff
Posts: 2685 - Karma: 17
Hey, chill girl. He wasn't calling you fat or ugly. He was just saying that if you were... that most guys are superficial enough that they wouldn't care if you went for nice guys. I'm sure you are a beautiful girl :)
Jan 19 2006 3:27PM
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gmack24
Posts: 4636 - Karma: 31
DUDE YOUR SO EMO/NICE....BE A DICK AND I ASSURE YOUR LIFE WILL GET BETTER, just out of nowhere tell that girl your nice to that yoru not interested in her petty problems and that shes a fuck up for dealing with them....man up, she doesnt want you cuz your a pussy all the time...sobbing with her like a sister...be a dick, have a attitude, u got the girl
Jan 19 2006 3:29PM
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twix_182
Posts: 9248 - Karma: 27
NOTE TO SELF: Being an ass online is different from being an ass in real life.
Jan 19 2006 3:36PM
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J.D.
Posts: 21362 - Karma: 5,141
"There is this girl I like a ton and she has a boyfriend and always fights with hima nd cries and I am always there for her and shit and she just takes advantage of it. "

www.intellectualwhores.com

If there's one thing you need to know about life, it's that nice guys always, always finish last.
Jan 19 2006 3:48PM
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J.D.
Posts: 21362 - Karma: 5,141
P.S. Everyone listen to Sharpy, he's completely right on this. And that girl who said she goes for the nice guys is lying to make herself feel better about herself. Girls who say "I'm not the average girl because my last boyfriend was all sensitive and blah blah" really ARE the average girl.

Seriously, it's all in the ladder theory.
Jan 19 2006 3:52PM
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strode
Posts: 7549 - Karma: 14
ladder theory owns all. and being nice never gets you anything but a headache and a hard on.
Jan 19 2006 3:55PM
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T]-[C
Posts: 103 - Karma: 10
I'm not saying I go for the nice guys as in the ones that cry all the time, and wear eyeliner, I'm saying that I don't go for the dumb shit jocks wearing skin tight pink polos with popped collars
Jan 19 2006 3:57PM
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-_-Johnny-_-
Posts: 480 - Karma: 39
dude, I used to be nice to everyone..
it sucked! be an ass..;)
Jan 19 2006 3:57PM
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strode
Posts: 7549 - Karma: 14
what does crying all the time and wearing eyeliner have anything to do with being nice?
Jan 19 2006 4:01PM
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