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argh! im so out of it right now. i have this crush on a shy guy and hes messing w. my head, god damn it, i might give up its awful. he goes out of his way to talk to me then just acts like im nothing special or something i ct read him at all and im tired, depressed and a little drunk.any advice w. dealing w. shy people?
seriously just make a move on him..ask him to hang out or something. whats the worst that can happen...he says no right? i made the first move with my present boyfriend because he was shy and it worked out great. we probably wouldnt be together if it werent for me making the first move.
i was the super shy guy, and she wasnt shy at all. i had more chances that a guy should ever get. what ended up happening was that she made the move (after a rediculous amount of time), which was good. save the grief and go for it. you should be fine if youre up to this point. if he is shy, he is shy, and youre the one who has to bring it together
intimitely it sounds like. i think it goes a little something like this:
steezyweezy and freeskiier1242 were more than freinds, when suddenly, freeskiier determined that steezys "weezy" wasnt quite enough, so he ended it then and there, causing steezyweezy to look less than steezy. that was his pent up rage.
Im shy too, and I just realized Im kinda doin the same thing, the thing thats preventin me, is that were good friends and i dont want to ask her, and have her be like, "no freek" and then the friendship is lost, so yeah, sorry for being like this, but yeah make a move first
i'm in the exact same situation!! it's so ridiculous he tells me he likes me and then he will ignore me and then he talks to me and flirts with me.. i dont get it, i mean i understand that hes shy.. but still he should just get it strait. So right now im kinda of seeking other options.. until he figures out what he wants or i figure it out first. cause this has been going on since about november
MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!! He is obviously shy, like you said, and he doesn't want to go out on a limb for fear of being embarrased. So just tell him you like him, or do it 5th grade style and have a friend do it for you.
i think the general idea here is that you should make the first move, no guy is not gonna appreciat that and if he dosnt want any of it, then oh well its his loss. There is way too many other people out there to be wasting your time in this situation, just go for it
shy people wont let you know that they like you unless you make the first move...if you make a first move they wont reject you. 2 shy people dont work. 1 shy and one that makes moves will work. if your lucky then once you make a move he wil lbecome less shy and start to make moves and stuff
looks like TexasAllStar has life all figured out. She is going to have sex with the homosexual man she likes, then go have sex with a dirty texan. With any luck his good looks and charm will impresss her so much they will live with each other forever (or so he thinks).
And when she files a divorce, he will kill her with his shotgun and bury her under his patio stones.