Im torn in between me's as in like there is a skiing me (1) (shaggy hair, hoodies, beanies) and the other me (2) (short hair, button downs sleeve rolled up and polos). Im not sure which one i should be. When im the skiing me (1) i feel more like me but i also feel like an out cast and i dont get much ass. but when im the other me (2) i feel more liked by people and i get more ass. what should i do.