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girls... help needed

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i_am_retarded
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k, so... the story is... me and this girl have been hooking up somewhat every night since about a week and a half ago. we never specified that we were 'together' at all, but we did like each other, and still do.. so here's where the problem arises, on friday night i hooked up with her best friend, because she liked me too, and she told me that girl A only wanted to be friends with benefits.. so anyways, after me and girl B hooked up, girl A told me that she didnt only want to be friends with benefits, and now she's angy at me, for the whole hooking up with her friend thing... so here's where your suggestions/help come in.. how am i suppose to get girl A back. right now she says she just wants to be friends, and maybe later somethign will come from that, but i don't like the whole 'maybe' something will come.. so what should i do to get her back??

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'sweet i can be seen sober with you' -- my friend dom to a previously not hot, now hot girl he was meeting.
Oct 21 2002 4:51PM
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Lanemeyers
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'eat her box till she comes harder than a 12 year old etheopian'

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Oct 21 2002 4:55PM
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i_am_retarded
Posts: 581 - Karma: 10
hahahahahahaha. that was priceless. however, first i have to get her trust back before i can do anything with her.

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'sweet i can be seen sober with you' -- my friend dom to a previously not hot, now hot girl he was meeting.
Oct 21 2002 4:58PM
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dpoiii
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haha that most likely would work..granted youll get the opportunity
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Oct 21 2002 4:58PM
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yeti
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lol you fucked up. move on.

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Oct 21 2002 5:08PM
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nealdawgdiamond
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yes you did fuck up


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Oct 21 2002 6:25PM
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i_am_retarded
Posts: 581 - Karma: 10
i know i fucked up... but i neeeeed to knwo what to do... cmon ladies, if someone did this to you what would they have to do to be forgiven???

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'sweet i can be seen sober with you' -- my friend dom to a previously not hot, now hot girl he was meeting.
Oct 21 2002 6:43PM
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lizziebeth
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well, which do you really want: girl A or girl B?

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Oct 21 2002 6:52PM
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i_am_retarded
Posts: 581 - Karma: 10
girl A... the one that's mad at me.

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'sweet i can be seen sober with you' -- my friend dom to a previously not hot, now hot girl he was meeting.
Oct 21 2002 7:02PM
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*Neil
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girls can be stubbern.

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The funny thing is the oldest one was nine
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Kept on pushing till i herd her scream.
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put my fist, in her clit, till i made her bleed
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Oct 21 2002 7:07PM
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steve-o
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dude, try talkin it out, if it dont work, MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIVES (canadaian beer comercial) you fucked yourself over, learn from the mistake
lanemeyers, u make me laugh
Oct 21 2002 7:09PM
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Drail
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why has noone suggested this yet? it's the obvious solution. get girl A to sleep with girl B... therefor all three of you have slept with eachother and you're all on level ground again.

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Oct 21 2002 7:55PM
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cravate
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another mindless post complements of D. Hunt

ok well. if that happened to me. well when that did happen to me. he told me straight up. he said. look. i heard wrong. i thought we were only friends with benefits. which from what i know. means we can still see other people with no commitment to each other. though i really like you. i fooled around with your friend and i really regret it. tell her that (if you want to) you want to be more than just friends with benefits too and that you knwo that means a commitment to each other and girl b. can go use her finger for all you care because you like her(girl a) better and want to be with her not girl b.

but i mean.. dont like to her. make you own version of what i said. but be honest with her tell her you know you fucked up
u know what to do in the future and that your sorry for the mess you caused.

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Oct 21 2002 8:01PM
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PhattTim
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okay, here's what I would do. You screwed up, openly admit that to her. Do you actually like her a lot? Coz if you don't then it really isn't worth chasing after her is it? And if it is, be careful that you don't get too wound up in the chase of it all coz then when you get the girl you'll be all like uh, and stuff. Figure out who you like more, A or B and what you want, then go about getting it.

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Oct 21 2002 8:04PM
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i_am_retarded
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yea it's definatly girl A, and yea i do liek her a lot... but she doesn't knwo what to do because they're really good friends, and girl B likes me, and you knwo how girls are with the whole 'my friend likes you so i can't do anythign with you', but yea. i want girl A.. grr.. stupid girls

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'sweet i can be seen sober with you' -- my friend dom to a previously not hot, now hot girl he was meeting.
Oct 21 2002 8:39PM
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snowflake
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I had the exact same thing happen between me and my best friend with a guy! Basically look at it this way dude..... unless both bestfriends openly and honestly truely want you and girl A to hook up again it's not going to happen. If they are truely best friends they won't let some guy get between them. Me and my best bud just shut the guy right out.....so i'd say your hooped! Unless they are horny bitches then maybe you'll get lucky and they'll share you! cheers buddy
Oct 21 2002 8:44PM
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lizziebeth
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gifts (i.e. flowers, cards, etc.) work wonders.

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Oct 21 2002 9:37PM
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LineJono
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maybe Girl A and Girl B could be convinced to be even better friends, and assure them that there's plenty to go around
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Oct 21 2002 9:39PM
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Maximumsushi
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Try to convince her that since you slept with her friend that having sex with her was cancelled out. So it's kinda like you havn't had sex with either of them. So its just like it was before you hooked up for the first time and you can start again. Might wanna write that down and maybe jig around the words a bit...
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Oct 21 2002 9:45PM
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Lanemeyers
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Chasing Amy. Da Hunt was correct. A little bit of column A mixed with a little bit of column B makes it equal. The equation looks similar to this:
B+D=A-respect(D)
A+B=D(A) not to mention a great film.

If a girl did it to me, well then I would never get with her again, so hopefully she's less feminin then me.....

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Oct 22 2002 9:47AM
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skilikeagirl
Posts: 343 - Karma: 11
it seems obvious that girl B was not really a good friend to girl A and may have gotten with you only because girl A and you were hookin' up. I say talk to girl A and ask her if she can forgive you for mistaking it. Say your feelings really lie with her and that they always have.. and girl B was just a mixed up mistake. Also, tell her with girl B said (about the friends with benifits thing) so she knows that it wasn't your dumb mistake but rather the idea of her friend.

Tell her that you would like to work things out, if she can forgive you, but if she can't then it won't ever work 'cause she obviously isn't ready at this time for a real relationship where people forgive each other for their mistakes. Tell her it is really a shame that it didn't work out.. and then get over it.. and then go and f- girl B again and leave the picture completely.

If she DOES decide to forgive you and work it out then you can't talk to girl B again.. at least not until girl A really really really trusts you. Don't go to girl B for advice or anything.. it will only lead to worse shit.

hope it works out for you!
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Oct 22 2002 12:03PM
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Lanemeyers
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Go for girl F, she has huge guns!

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Oct 22 2002 12:08PM
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newbskier
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man that happened over the summer to me and i am just starting to talk to girl A agian so i wish i could give you some advice but i haven't even figured out how to get her to like me agian sorry
Oct 22 2002 12:08PM
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Cam
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yes, yes thats good, go with what she just said!


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Oct 22 2002 12:09PM
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skilikeagirl
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thanks cam.. :)
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Oct 22 2002 12:11PM
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skier_chick_360
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The whole girl firends thing about not being able to follow around with a certian guy cause her friends into him was completly broken cause girl B lied to u and got play from you so they obivously arent very good friends!

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Oct 22 2002 3:00PM
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skilikeagirl
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exactly skier girl.. she is obviously just trying to steal girl A's play and girl B obviously wants to make girl A look bad or keep girl A single..

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Oct 22 2002 3:12PM
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i_am_retarded
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well.. i decided what i'm gonna do. i've decided to push all my emotions to the side, and just play every girl i meet form now on. girls are evil with their heart crushing capabilities... so i'll just play them both

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Oct 22 2002 5:57PM
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skilikeagirl
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or do that - that was always an option! have fun!!

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Oct 22 2002 6:01PM
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A_W
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I have the answer. Girl C. you can thank me later, or hook me up with girl A or girl B

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Oct 23 2002 12:44AM
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jizack
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i agree 100% with darryl



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Oct 23 2002 1:39AM
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i_am_retarded
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haHA! to everyone that thought i had no chance, and that i had fucked up too bad to fix it, proved you wrong... me and girl A are now on good terms, and i guess going out??

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'sweet i can be seen sober with you' -- my friend dom to a previously not hot, now hot girl he was meeting.
Oct 24 2002 11:07AM
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skilikeagirl
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good job - knew you could do it! -- just keep it simple now, though and DON'T TRUST GIRL B!

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Oct 24 2002 11:20AM
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Lanemeyers
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'well.. i decided what i'm gonna do. i've decided to push all my emotions to the side, and just play every girl i meet form now on. girls are evil with their heart crushing capabilities... so i'll just play them both'

i_am_retarded

hahahaha, your contradictions always make me fuckin roar!


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Oct 24 2002 1:46PM
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johnnypsunami
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fuck them both
What the hell were they doing with a car on the moon?... havent they gone far enough?
Oct 24 2002 4:17PM
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Shane_McWannabe
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I'm girl B, your hurting my feelings saying that you dont really want me after you fooled around with me. I hate you you jackass. I'm getting my friend girl A to dump your jerky ass.
Take that.


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Oct 24 2002 7:42PM
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Freeskifro
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It doesn't really matter what you do cuz I'm given it to girl A, B, C, D, E, F, G, and H.
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Oct 24 2002 9:39PM
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i_am_retarded
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word up, except girl b's all about me going out with girl A cause she said 'as soon as you're donw with _______ you can have me'

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