ok so i was at this party tonight, and everything was chill, and as the party winded down at 12 some girls came downstairs crying and shit, turns out some sophmore guy cut his wrists in the girls bedroom, there was blood all over the sheets, its really fucked up cuz the kid seemed cool, i just dont understand shit like that, i dont know where i should tell his parents, cuz hes obviously got problems, the cuts werent too deep
seriously, those kids are fucked up. you really gotta show him attention. let him know he's wanted, and there's a place for him here, and that he doesn't need to feel that he shouldn't live.
stick that in your pipe and smoke it!
cutting is horrible, its an actual addiction. def tell someone, he needs help. and for all of you that said beat him up, you likely have much growing up to do. cutting starts out as a cry for help or attention, and that scenarion was pretty loud and clear. man, def tell someone, whether or not you know him doesnt matter. people get addicted to it when they're battling with depression - its a physical stimulus. then one day it goes too far. intervention!
^ well said. a lot of times, it isn't just a cry for attention, they become addicted to it. it's something like having the feeling you are going to die happen over and over again. because people pass out from blood loss sometimes but wake up later and continue to cut. although a lot of people may use it as attention, there are also a lot who don't. it's not cool calling someone like that a fucking retard and telling you to beat him up. he needs help. if he hates you for a while, so be it. if you tell someone and get him some help, eventually he will be able to thank you.
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who gives a fuck if you just met him, tell someone else that way when he whinds up dead you can say 'hey I told someone about this so don't look at me'
.................at that point I started to cry...mainly 'cause I sat on my balls. I banged this chick so hard one time..she had to adjust her cant.
how ever cutting other people can be fun...if you hate them that is
When i grow up i wanna be a ski patroler and bitch at those crazy kids with skis that turn up in the back and who ski backwards.... its dangerous you know
but on a serious note thats pretty messed up. thats the kind of stuff that could end that girls party hosting priveledges. and her parents might start wondering what types of people she hangs out with and they could make her social life hell.
i used to know a few girls who cut their wrists, i guess some where for attention but one girl actually explained it to me once, she didn't do it for attention, she actually tried to hide it. She said it was a way of taking her emotional pain that she couldnt understand and turn it into physical pain so she could pin point exactly where it hurt and she knew the reason. its sorta a weird thing to think about but it made sense to me
all of u guys who say that the kid should get beat up and shit are assholes, this kid needs help, i already left the guy who made this forum and comment about this to help him. alot of my friends are cutters, alot of my friends have been in the hospital or ward for it. its really sad, i know atleast 20 people who cut and i think it needs to be addressed in our schools bc right now its the trend and its only going to get worse.
most people who cut try to hide it, but i do know some girls who show it off. most people cut as a way to release pain. my friend mike does it because he does so many drugs its the only way he knows hes alive sometimes. a friend of mine used to cut so bad shed go into the hospital for days on end and i finially told her that we couldnt be friends anymore if she continued to cut bc it hurt me so bad. and because of that she actually quit cutting, i think shes cut twice since i said that and that was about 8 months ago.
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^ I hate to say it, but if one of my 'friends' was fucked up enough to cut themselves, I wouldn't associate myself with them anymore. Call me an ass or whatever, but I wouldn't want to deal with that and couldn't see how anyone I would want to be around could either.
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i have no respect for people who do that-bad experiences. But i still feel bad for them. The best thing to do would probably be to talk to your guidance counseler, or not worry about it
fuck that if i wanted attention i can think of a lot of other ways to get it then bleeding to death.
its all emo's fault all the 14 year old girls sitting on the floor in their bathroom playing Adams Song while they cry and feel bad for themselves they should be shot
I was at my bros college, hes the Ra and it was like 330 am, and some dude came into our room who had dranken a 3rd of gin taken a bunch of pills then slit his wrists, he wiped blood all over the walls in the dorm. then tryed to jump out of a window. fucked up shit
^^ u dont fucking bleed to death if u cut urself right. even if u slit ur wrists its rare that u die. most people cut their upper arms, forarms, sometimes stomach, thighs and calves. cutters dont cut to kill themselves
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lol, i have this scar on my wrist that looks like i cut it. everyone is like 'OMG why did you do that to yourself?'. *Looks at wrist* 'Yeah i guess that big ass hot cooking iron got the best of me.'. then they look blankly and apologize
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if cutters cut themselves to kill themselves seing as how they are still alive that would mean that they failed at killing themselves and that is pretty sad. anyways I dont feel sorry for people who cut themselves I mean its pain they are doing to themselves. If they are mentally handicaped then they shouldnt be around things that can hurt them and its the gardians fault, and if they dont know any better after the first time they will realize that they shouldnt do it when they feel the pain.
so those who continue want attention or pitty and should not get it since its their own fault for doing this thing to themselves
I don't get the whole cutting thing, as far as the goths who talk about it like it's a hobby or something go. it's not exactly 'fun'. Why people do it repeatedly is beyond me. Once is enough to convince you NEVER to do it again. If not, you have more than just issues. Issues are what make you think it's necessary to do that in the first place. Revelling it enough to make a habit out of it? That's another thing entirely.
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No, no, its not about trying to kill yourself. Self inflicted wounds are a form of physical tension. When sadness and depression get that intense it doesn't just effect your mental state, but your physical one as well.
Think of it as pricking a hole in a water balloon thats about to explode. But the hole gets sealed up, so you do it again, its a vicious, vicious cycle.
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it makes a lot of sense to me to some degree. A lot of people do not know how to express them properly. By cutting themselves, they are releasing certain feelings that they are not easily able to express any other way.
No, it is not particularly physically or mentally healthy, but it is all some people know.
okay, I didn't read all the posts, so this might have already been said... but anyways.
You should talk to him first... just be like "I hardly know you, but you seem super chill... if you need to talk about something, you can trust me." And then wait to see if he is still cutting. If he keeps doing it, then talk to him about it "Man, I'm worried about you, do you want to talk about anything?" and if it keeps happening, then go to his parents or a teacher or something...
Either that or take him skiing and show him that skiing is the shit...
to the guy who made it sound like i cut, i dont just a majority of my goodfriends do and one was even put in a ward about 2 years ago and is still in it for cutting. if any of u guys have questions just ask
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