PeppermillRenoIm not going to go the skierman route and tell you to ditch this chick or anything. BUt if she is saying she doesn't want you around or involved in her problems that is likely the truth.
Honestly try to take a few days off from contact don't be texting her to check in and all that bullshit. She feels like she owes you shit and your 300 miles away and that is probably one of her big problems...she can't get some dick to cheer her up b/c it would be being disloyal to you...see what I mean? Feeling she owes shit to a guy 300 miles away is definitley part of her problems so I'd back off.
She doesn't want non stop calls and she doesn't want you driving 300 miles to 'rescue' her nothing to do but leave her alone.
This is what sort of settled to. I found that a big cause of stress for her was her thinking she was hurting me, and I said I'd leave her alone for a while until she could sort this thing out. I did my best to make her feel important, and to try and not guilt her. The last thing she needs is to have more pain in her life
MinggNah dude. Girls are crazy. When we push you away usually it means we need you. And when/if you let us push you away then it means you didn't care enough to begin with.
A lot of guys would have noped the fuck out of the situation I'm in with her right now, shes got some bad depression. But I love her, and I'm probably going to be the only guy who will love her like I do. I feel it's my responsibility to stay with her. And I did, she kept pushing me away because she doesnt want to hurt me, but I kept close because I felt she needed me. I'm backing off now because I think I'm just causing pain for her. I'm not leaving her by any means but I'm giving her some space, because that's what she genuinely wants. She's always really honest with me, doesn't play silly games, so when she says she wants to have some space she means it. I wouldn't back off unless she really honestly wanted me to
I hate shin bang, it feels like someone took a rubber mallet to your shins without mercy