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AgitatedHiatus
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Been talking to my ex for a while. Long story short, I was in the town she was in, she said she wanted me to visit her, so I did. Next you thing you know we're cuddling and we kiss. She hits me with the "I miss you" and the "I want to get back together eventually". I'm trying not to catch feelings but I'm going to the same college as her next year. Crazy right? Also, I was talking to her last night and when I'm talking about getting back together she goes "I have no idea what will happen" and then she just stops texting me. What do I do NS?
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Nov 1 2015 12:13PM
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Brue
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She be play'n games. Only guys can do that sneaky shit. Move on
Nov 1 2015 12:36PM
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Sno.
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she's keeping you around as a back-up, just in case all the hot bods she meets at college next year don't work out and she needs you to fall back on.
Nov 1 2015 12:37PM
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arnie_grape
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I wouldn't bother dude
Nov 1 2015 1:05PM
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Bonzalo
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Sno.she's keeping you around as a back-up, just in case all the hot bods she meets at college next year don't work out and she needs you to fall back on.


Word.

You are going to college next year, don't lock you down with her now.
Nov 1 2015 1:15PM
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AgitatedHiatus
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BrueShe be play'n games. Only guys can do that sneaky shit. Move on


Sno.she's keeping you around as a back-up, just in case all the hot bods she meets at college next year don't work out and she needs you to fall back on.


FROGGINBULLFISHI wouldn't bother dude


BonzaloWord.

You are going to college next year, don't lock you down with her now.


So stupid. I have no idea why she would want to do that.
Nov 1 2015 1:26PM
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.MASSHOLE.
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AgitatedHiatusSo stupid. I have no idea why she would want to do that.


Confidence booster. Everyone wants to feel desired and she wants to get that from you until she does not need it anymore.
Nov 1 2015 1:43PM
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AgitatedHiatus
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.MASSHOLE.Confidence booster. Everyone wants to feel desired and she wants to get that from you until she does not need it anymore.

She texted me this morning saying "hey" after I sent her "morning." What should I text back, if anything?
Nov 1 2015 1:44PM
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.MASSHOLE.
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AgitatedHiatusShe texted me this morning saying "hey" after I sent her "morning." What should I text back, if anything?


You're asking the wrong person for advice on this bud. I would just advise being cordial and friendly but don't expect anything or put yourself in that position unless you're ready to accept the consequences.
Nov 1 2015 1:55PM
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cornholio
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AgitatedHiatusShe texted me this morning saying "hey" after I sent her "morning." What should I text back, if anything?


send a dick pic
Nov 1 2015 8:11PM
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numnuts
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hit it and quit it
Nov 1 2015 8:18PM
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All_Alpine
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She's your EX for a reason. Don't get locked down in college, I was for most of it and regret it a lot still. Hook up, hangout with her sure but just remember she's an EX for a reason
Nov 1 2015 8:27PM
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casual
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AgitatedHiatusShe texted me this morning saying "hey" after I sent her "morning." What should I text back, if anything?


NOTHING!!

Seriously....this is going nowhere except to you being frustrated and confused. Just forget about it and meet other ladies.
Nov 1 2015 8:55PM
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FastSpeed
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You are actually about to meet hundreds of new ladies in a few months. If you want to keep busy till then, fine. But don't get locked into a relationship right before college, terrible idea.
Nov 1 2015 9:08PM
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HamFaceGirl
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lol don't text her, you're going to college next year, and the bitches are plentiful
Nov 1 2015 9:14PM
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AgitatedHiatus
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All_AlpineShe's your EX for a reason. Don't get locked down in college, I was for most of it and regret it a lot still. Hook up, hangout with her sure but just remember she's an EX for a reason


casualNOTHING!!

Seriously....this is going nowhere except to you being frustrated and confused. Just forget about it and meet other ladies.


36ChambersOfWuYou are actually about to meet hundreds of new ladies in a few months. If you want to keep busy till then, fine. But don't get locked into a relationship right before college, terrible idea.


Why did you regret it? And also, she's going to the same college as me. I dunno. I'm trying to move on but its really hard.
Nov 2 2015 8:05AM
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.Hugo.
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Shes playin ya man
Nov 2 2015 8:08AM
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DanielPlainview
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Sno.she's keeping you around as a back-up, just in case all the hot bods she meets at college next year don't work out and she needs you to fall back on.


nailed it
Nov 2 2015 8:25AM
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-Dan
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AgitatedHiatusWhy did you regret it? And also, she's going to the same college as me. I dunno. I'm trying to move on but its really hard.


delete her number. stop talking to her. she is an ex for a reason. you don't want her back, you're just missing that feeling of being desired and this is the easiest solution.

How long ago did you break up? Why do you think things are different now?
Nov 2 2015 8:54AM
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BenWhit
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AgitatedHiatusShe texted me this morning saying "hey" after I sent her "morning." What should I text back, if anything?


quit texting her ya dingus!
Nov 2 2015 9:04AM
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AgitatedHiatus
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TallxTdelete her number. stop talking to her. she is an ex for a reason. you don't want her back, you're just missing that feeling of being desired and this is the easiest solution.

How long ago did you break up? Why do you think things are different now?


We broke up in late june/early july this last summer. And I dunno, I think things might be different because she's had a chance to think about how much she misses me, and since we're going to be at the same college it'll be easier.
Nov 2 2015 9:09AM
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-Dan
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AgitatedHiatusWe broke up in late june/early july this last summer. And I dunno, I think things might be different because she's had a chance to think about how much she misses me, and since we're going to be at the same college it'll be easier.


why does it matter that she misses you? thats not part of a persons character. thats just a state of mind. You haven't been apart very long. 4 months? you're both just settling for fall backs because there isn't another option in your face.

I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 months ago. I miss her sometimes, but I know that she isn't the right person for me. Thats why i broke up with her. She sure as hell misses me, but that does mean we should be together.
Nov 2 2015 9:28AM
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Bonzalo
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TallxTwhy does it matter that she misses you? thats not part of a persons character. thats just a state of mind. You haven't been apart very long. 4 months? you're both just settling for fall backs because there isn't another option in your face.

I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 months ago. I miss her sometimes, but I know that she isn't the right person for me. Thats why i broke up with her. She sure as hell misses me, but that does mean we should be together.


You didn't end up inviting the post office girl out right??
Nov 2 2015 9:42AM
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no_steeze
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If you know 100% that you want to be with her through college then go for it, otherwise there're plenty of other girls. It sounds like you're more in the latter situation so don't give in to her manipulation and move on
Nov 2 2015 9:54AM
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-Dan
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BonzaloYou didn't end up inviting the post office girl out right??


yeah we went out lol. but I don't need to tell NS everything. long story short we- we aren't into each other but it was a positive life experience
Nov 2 2015 10:03AM
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bdarb207
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AgitatedHiatusWe broke up in late june/early july this last summer. And I dunno, I think things might be different because she's had a chance to think about how much she misses me, and since we're going to be at the same college it'll be easier.


one hundred percent NOPE.

Move on. She's keeping you around so you're not getting with other chicks. Basically marking her territory. Do yourself a favor and move on. She's just making sure she has you locked up if she wants.

Sucks to hear but i guarantee it's what's going on.
Nov 2 2015 11:13AM
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JTCasper540_MN
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TallxTyeah we went out lol. but I don't need to tell NS everything. long story short we- we aren't into each other but it was a positive life experience


AKA: they fucked lol
Nov 2 2015 11:27AM
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TACO-DOG.exe
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i got back with an ex once and it was the worst decision i've made. whatever problems you guys had before will come up again and you'll feel like an idiot.
Nov 2 2015 11:29AM
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S.J.W
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pics are obviously required.
Nov 2 2015 11:49AM
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FrenchFry
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Dude if you like her stay with her if you don't move on? This isn't rocket appliances.
Nov 2 2015 11:56AM
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selfiejesus
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something's in the air, lately. so many people are missing their exes. saw a Facebook post about it yesterday, and I've been talking to my ex as well.
Nov 2 2015 11:58AM
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.Hugo.
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skiforsamsomething's in the air, lately. so many people are missing their exes. saw a Facebook post about it yesterday, and I've been talking to my ex as well.


Over the years i have found that people tend to wanna get locked up just before the winter months
Nov 2 2015 12:10PM
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soulskier
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The only way her proposal should even be considered is if the initial break up was mutual due to you guys being far away from eachother
Nov 2 2015 1:20PM
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Kazabazua
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AgitatedHiatusShe texted me this morning saying "hey" after I sent her "morning." What should I text back, if anything?


You sound like such a vagina.
Nov 2 2015 1:29PM
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AgitatedHiatus
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KazabazuaYou sound like such a vagina.


I'm sorry?
Nov 2 2015 2:25PM
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JahLiam
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OP the poll don't lie
Nov 2 2015 3:13PM
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bdarb207
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AgitatedHiatusI'm sorry?


Because you sound like a vagina, he said, "you sound like a vagina." Probably to get you to stop being a vagina.

No need to apologize.
Nov 2 2015 3:21PM
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arnie_grape
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AgitatedHiatusI'm sorry?


keep digging your hole
Nov 2 2015 3:22PM
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e~b
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the fact you're asking ns what to text a girl after she says "hey" has led me to believe that you are indeed a vagina
Nov 2 2015 3:28PM
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LynxNation
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It sounds like she was caught up in a moment or a memory and she's probably not really ready to do what she says. She pulled a cold move on you. Maybe don't totally dismiss her but don't expect to be getting back together anytime soon.

Also it's college, go out and have some fun! Try not to get hung up on exes, they're usually an ex for a reason.
Nov 2 2015 5:01PM
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Blindsurfer
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don't
Nov 2 2015 5:02PM
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DanielPlainview
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shes just keeping you around as a backup man dont take the bait. Only way to get her to really want u back is to start nailing a chick thats prettier than her, and by then youre already long gone. Just give it up.
Nov 2 2015 5:10PM
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Kazabazua
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AgitatedHiatusI'm sorry?


If someone ever calls you a vagina tell them to go fuck themselves.

You have some of the best years of your life coming up. Don't waste your time chasing a girl who doesn't see your full potential. Go and see what other girls have to offer and you'll end up finding someone who actually appreciates you. Someone who you can talk to genuinely - without needing to consult an internet forum of 14 year old gapers to give the 'right answer'.
Nov 2 2015 5:38PM
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AgitatedHiatus
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KazabazuaIf someone ever calls you a vagina tell them to go fuck themselves.

You have some of the best years of your life coming up. Don't waste your time chasing a girl who doesn't see your full potential. Go and see what other girls have to offer and you'll end up finding someone who actually appreciates you. Someone who you can talk to genuinely - without needing to consult an internet forum of 14 year old gapers to give the 'right answer'.


Dude, this may be the best advice I've gotten on this thread. Thank you.
Nov 2 2015 6:05PM
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veng_m
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HamFaceGirl3.0Over the years i have found that people tend to wanna get locked up just before the winter months

its cuffing season dude lol
Nov 2 2015 6:10PM
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Download-My-Apps
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texting her won't make her care about you unfortunately. Just walk away and don't look back. It will probably make her miss you more (nice for your ego, but who gives a fuck) and will let you find a better girl. I'm not normally one for gender stereotypes and 'manning up'. But walk away with your pride will be more attractive to any girl over pinning over them.

Plus she sounds selfish, why waste your time?
Nov 2 2015 6:28PM
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AgitatedHiatus
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Download-My-Appstexting her won't make her care about you unfortunately. Just walk away and don't look back. It will probably make her miss you more (nice for your ego, but who gives a fuck) and will let you find a better girl. I'm not normally one for gender stereotypes and 'manning up'. But walk away with your pride will be more attractive to any girl over pinning over them.

Plus she sounds selfish, why waste your time?


I don't know man. It's tough
Nov 2 2015 6:40PM
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TheBigApple
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I look back on college and the only thing I regret is not having had sex with more women. I don't regret failing classes, I don't regret ending long relationships, and most importantly I don't regret not trying to get back together with an ex.
Nov 2 2015 7:43PM
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DirtYStylE
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TheBigAppleI look back on college and the only thing I regret is not having had sex with more women. I don't regret failing classes, I don't regret ending long relationships, and most importantly I don't regret not trying to get back together with an ex.


That's some classic text right there. Most guys are like "hey, I want to fuck everything."

Think about that for a second. If that's what you want and wanted. Why didn't you fuck more women? Probably because there was a lack of skill and focus. You should accept that you did what you wanted to do, which was NOT to fuck all the women. Only the ones you REALLY wanted.
Nov 3 2015 1:46AM
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RimJobber
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KazabazuaIf someone ever calls you a vagina tell them to go fuck themselves.

You have some of the best years of your life coming up. Don't waste your time chasing a girl who doesn't see your full potential. Go and see what other girls have to offer and you'll end up finding someone who actually appreciates you. Someone who you can talk to genuinely - without needing to consult an internet forum of 14 year old gapers to give the 'right answer'.


This has nothing to do with the OP but I just saw that you were posting and I was just thinking about you the other day. What happened to your music dude? I was listening to your shit since you were Pinto Gold and I'm always checking up every once in a while to see if you dropped new shit. I love listening to it when I ski.
Nov 3 2015 2:42AM
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Kazabazua
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RimJobberThis has nothing to do with the OP but I just saw that you were posting and I was just thinking about you the other day. What happened to your music dude? I was listening to your shit since you were Pinto Gold and I'm always checking up every once in a while to see if you dropped new shit. I love listening to it when I ski.


Thanks a lot man - In the past Ive only released music that I enjoy listening to and I got a little bored of the stuff I was making. I felt like there was something missing from my songs but couldn't put my finger on it, until about a year ago when listening to The Cinematic Orchestra - it clicked.

I realized you can get a lot more feeling and personality out of a real kit than electronic drums, so I bought a little jazz kit and have been practicing everyday for the last 6 months. I plan on releasing an EP in the new year that will incorporate real drums and real bass, which if well received I'll turn into a live set.

Thanks for listening.
Nov 3 2015 8:49AM
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