flyekso yeah turns out that dalbello isnt that great boot to have it on ur foot most of the day, so im open for suggestions on what do people actually use. Help please :(
But this is exactly what we are saying WILL NOT WORK. Many people can wear a Dalbello boot all day long, but for your foot that specific option didn't work. Additionally, that is only one Dalbello boot and they make many different fit options.
Each ski boot brand offers different fits and each fit is associated with a millimeter measurement across the forefoot: 92mm, 93mm, 95mm, 98mm, 100mm, 101mm, 102mm, 103mm, 104mm etc. Next you have flex differences ranging from 170 to 70. There are so many possible combinations that if someone says "try this, it works for me" there is a very high possibility that their recommendation will not work for you.
This is why it is so important to go to a boot-fitter (not just a shop that sells boots) and have that person assess your foot needs and then find a boot that works for you. If you listen to other people's recommendations, it will be completely random and useless information for you.
In short- ignore what works for other people and find what works for you. This is the best advice we can give you.