Looking for a girls opinion, or at least an honest one

J_Bergvolleyball

VinnieFthis can only mean good things

UglyboyYour tastes in woman will change once you leave high school. Yeah it will suck breaking up but in a few years you'll look back and think "nope what was I thinking?"

dingusDont make long term decisions based on a girlfriend, my friend who once spent every weekend with us hasn't spent time with us in months, I take that back we went to PC for spring break but even then he would talk to her for 3 hours every night and that is not exaggerated, we never see him he is choosing what college he goes to based on where she is going, he was looking at going to a good film school but when she came along she was his priororty which is ridiculous for a highschool student

VinnieFthis can only mean good things

Shewlur...have you talked to her about this directly? if not, you definitely should - and don't pussyfoot around it. You guys will have to break up, no doubt about it. So it's better to establish that now, rather than leave it open-ended; that will just hurt the both of you in the long run.

savvy_skilong distance relationships work for few people, I know I'm certainly not one of them.. you don't really sound like it either. I think you have everything figured out, you just don't want to say it to her. it will suck, especially since you seem pretty caught up in her, but once you get to college that will go away!! Hope things go alright for you!

-WZ-fuck man im in the same situation. its been 7 months with my gf and were both planning on going to schools relatively close.... but idk. I could see myself with her long term but theres so much in life that i have to figure out rn

J_BergYes exactly dude. My thing is idk where ill even been a year from now, let alone where my relationship would be. You cant plan this kinda stuff out life just has its ways

J_BergTrying to reel in the more mature crowd of NS..
It's about a girl.. dun dun dun dunnnnn
I'm a senior in high school and things are wrapping up, I'm done with AP tests, and graduation is right around the corner. Thing is this girl I've been with lately, we've been dating pretty seriously for 6 months or so, and she's someone I really see myself with. This isn't my first relationship and I'm not totally ignorant to the fact that other girls do exist.
Anyway, College. I'm going to CU in the fall, and she is going to Tenessee tech on a volleyball scholarship. Also, being that we're from northern Illinois, trips home won't occur often.
I guess my question is more of how to leave it with her. Basically how I feel now is that I will meet new people/girls, date freely, figure myself out more, and maybe see her as a friend over Christmas, and summers. Who knows. I really don't know where this next year will take me, let alone a relationship with her. Deep down I know what I'll end up doing like I stated above, is that what I should just tell her?
Any input is appreciated.

cddlswthsqrrlsEnd it on a good note. Don't leave room for any kind of resentment. I think it would be best to break it off when you know for sure that you want to. Who knows, maybe she is thinking the same thing. Talk to her in person and explain to her basically what you just said to us. She'll understand and if you are considerate about it you guys will likely be able to be friends.

Good luck man, that's rough. Hope it all goes well!

J_BergAnyway, College. I'm going to CU in the fall, and she is going to Tenessee tech on a volleyball scholarship.


She is probably blonde and has a nice ass. Im goin to CU too.

cddlswthsqrrlsEnd it on a good note. Don't leave room for any kind of resentment. I think it would be best to break it off when you know for sure that you want to. Who knows, maybe she is thinking the same thing. Talk to her in person and explain to her basically what you just said to us. She'll understand and if you are considerate about it you guys will likely be able to be friends.

Good luck man, that's rough. Hope it all goes well!

*Frankie*Anyway, College. I'm going to CU in the fall, and she is going to Tenessee tech on a volleyball scholarship.


She is probably blonde and has a nice ass. Im goin to CU too.

Lord_ByronHe already knows what he wants, he just wants to keep getting it in until the last minute. Don't tell her until your last day or 2 OP.

Lord_ByronHe already knows what he wants, he just wants to keep getting it in until the last minute. Don't tell her until your last day or 2 OP.

J_BergThis. Honestly yeah its shitty cuz i really have feelings for her and shes a real catch. But at the same time its just high school, and we have great sex hahahah

no_steezeIf you're planning on not staying together you need to tell her. If you agree to ride it out and enjoy your summer together before breaking things off then that's fine, but you both need to be part of that decision. It's not fair to her to lead her on like that and it'll make the breakup that much harder

If you truly believe she is a real catch and have no questions about staying with her then try to make it work, but you need to do it with the intent to be with her for all 4 years and stay completely loyal, otherwise you will develop questions halfway through and it'll end up crashing and burning. So many kids come in freshman year trying to tentatively continue a high school relationship but with reservations, and that's why nearly all long distance situations fail in college. It's really a 100% or nothing type of situation if you want it to work. That doesn't mean you should sacrifice your college experience to stay inside and talk to her for 4 hours every night, since that will make you resent eachother, but your intention for the relationship needs to be to stay together with no doubt in either of your minds. If that's not the case already then it's unlikely to become the case

J_BergYes, that is indeed the situation. what dorm where you from

shin-bangMing why did you change your username

FBGMwhatever you do, just be honest with her