What's your budget? assuming you're poor...
If you want just photo, and can omit the video...
Canon 40D, Kit lens, 50 f1.8.
Nikon D80, Kit lens, 35 f1.8
If you want video...
Canon T2i, kit lens, rode videomic, extra batteries, extra cards. 10$ Tripod.
Nikon D5100, kit lens, otherwise, same thing... build a lens collection as you go.
Have a nice day, Bluename.