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Well I guess this is about virginity but my answer doesn't regard virginity so I'm sorry but take some advice
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I know this is unpopular, but make sure you date a girl a while before sex. Some people on here say have sex young and as often as possible so you can learn what you like. The problem with this, is you're choosing the girl based on sex. If you end up with someone because you love the things they do for you sexually, what happens when the sex life dies down, or when you realize that really she sucks at life except for sex? In general, women give blowjobs and do lots of things for you sexually when you just meet and they want you to like them. Lots of women hate blowjobs, or will quit doing those things they used to do once they know they have their hook in you.
Don't let your dick dicktate your life. Make sure when you settle down with someone, it's for the right reasons.
I just got out of a 5 year relationship based on sex, and fuck that. Don't date a girl you banged early on in the relationship, it'll cloud your vision
i think it is different for a guy than a girl, because i think women are more emotionally attached to their virginity. Obviously this doesn't apply to anyone, but the stereotype is that guys can't wait to lose it, and whatever guy loses it first is the biggest stud, and whatever girl loses hers first is a slut, and therefore girls hang on to it. Of course, this stereotype is stupid because you're not a "stud" for having sex first, and girls aren't "sluts" for being the first of their peers to have sex either.
That being said, how attached are you emotionally to your virginity, OP?
If it means something to you, and you aren't just out to lose it asap, I'd say anything after 18 is a good age to lose it, and to someone you care about.
If you're just out to lose it and don't have any emotional attachment to it, then just wait until you're old enough to be responsible enough to use protection and understand potential consequences. Also--if you're young, and you don't care about your virginity, but you're taking the V of a girl who DOES care...you should probably do it with another girl, for her sake.
snobunnyIf you're just out to lose it and don't have any emotional attachment to it, then just wait until you're old enough to be responsible enough to use protection and understand potential consequences.
BandieBoyI'm gonna be serious since most of the other posters are joking. The decision is up to you and no one else can make that for you or tell you what to do. But please consider: sex is inherently meant for long-term partnerships or marriage
"Inherently" your male body is actually designed to want to have sex with many different people starting whenever you're sexually mature as part of a biological/reproductive/evolutionary process. So not really.
