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limedakine
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My boyfriend sleep talks about this girl he fucked last year. All the time. It wasn't too big of a deal, because she lived in Australia. Now she's moved back to the U.S and of course, the town my boy and I live in. And he's "so excited" that she's back. She's having a birthday this Friday, and of course he's going and I'm expected to come with. I don't want to fucking go, but I feel like I have to because I don't trust either one of them. I really like this guy a lot, but im wondering if i should just break up with him and avoid the shit storm that's going to follow. Or do I give him a chance. Opinions?
Oct 15 2013 10:49AM
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limedakine
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I do live in the Bozone yea haha. Oh god I hope I don't know you.
Oct 15 2013 4:11PM
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pat_in_the_hat
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;)
Oct 15 2013 4:13PM
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limedakine
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Oh god I do know you don't I?
Oct 15 2013 4:14PM
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Daph
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you don't want to
Oct 15 2013 4:18PM
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pat_in_the_hat
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hey now daph, easy!



im not THAT bad....
Oct 15 2013 4:22PM
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Daph
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i liked you better when you had all your fingers ;]
Oct 15 2013 4:23PM
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pat_in_the_hat
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hey, i have an idea. me, daph and watermelons can celebrate my favorite number, 3. It would probably solve everything...
Oct 15 2013 4:29PM
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brotherdad
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OP, I've been in this boat before. If you ever want to talk about it over coffee or something, PM me and we'll work something out. (;
Oct 15 2013 4:58PM
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limedakine
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Oct 15 2013 5:08PM
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Huck_Norris
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This guy sounds like a fucking douchebag or at elast an idiot.

Who the hell tells a girl that some other girl was the best ever, and then acts like it's cool to go to their bday party?!??



I'd hitch my wagon to another star if I were you. He seriously sounds clueless as hell.
Oct 15 2013 5:10PM
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GayWolf420
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ITT: Woman logic being proven.
Oct 15 2013 5:14PM
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Sdot.
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A BIG part of me wanted to say, "Are you kidding me right now?" when I read this, but when you really think about it, almost all of us have done or put up with some really stupid shit because we really like someone. Hell, I know I have! You'll eventually learn what's healthy and what's not in a relationship and what you should and shouldn't put up with (many of us learn the hard way, unfortunately), and then you'll think back on this in five years and wonder what the hell you were thinking.

Best of luck, young lady! Ditch the guy; you're better off without him, I promise you.
Oct 15 2013 6:00PM
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limedakine
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After all this I feel like an idiot for wanting to give him a chance still.
Oct 15 2013 7:31PM
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limedakine
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Random fun fact, just remembered the boyfriend is on NS. Aaaand he just replied to the "Where do  you go to college" thread.

Guesses on which one he is?
Oct 15 2013 7:41PM
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SFB
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me?
Oct 15 2013 7:43PM
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LoathesRaisins
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You are whats wrong with women in this country.
Oct 15 2013 7:44PM
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ILLinoisance
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WAS THIS OVER BEFORE.......BEFORE IT EVER BEGAN?!
Oct 15 2013 7:45PM
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limedakine
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Haha noooope. Sorry bro.
Oct 15 2013 7:48PM
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pmw
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I think asking the internet for advice might not be the be the first place you should start. Talk to him
Oct 15 2013 7:50PM
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SFB
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good.
Oct 15 2013 8:12PM
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Vino
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She doesnt need to talk to him, he already read it !

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Oct 15 2013 10:13PM
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joe_dirt
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i bet hes gonna find this thread.
Oct 15 2013 10:21PM
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Finkle
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Threads for when he does.
Oct 15 2013 10:30PM
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limedakine
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Yea yea lol. I told him not to read it. Will see what happens.
Oct 15 2013 11:57PM
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SHHAARROON
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Ahaha I just died
Oct 16 2013 1:03AM
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Gsince93
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Clearly OP has attachment issues to some extent. Writing is on the wall....wants to give chance
sorry op that always sucks...
Oct 16 2013 1:25AM
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theBearJew
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This is your boyfriend...
Oct 16 2013 1:26AM
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Saac
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does the other girls ski???

if not you should be able to beat that scrub out
Oct 16 2013 1:35AM
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stickski
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I'm interested how this conversation went down... "So there's this thread I made... I can't tell you what it's about but dont read it k?" Seems legit!
Oct 16 2013 3:01AM
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maximiliaan
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I think shes trolling.... Juist remembered that he is on newschoolers? Kind of a big deal if you are making a thread like this... Says, i told him not to look at it but she doesnt trust him.... Intradesting...
Oct 16 2013 3:56AM
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snowdon
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lol I have a real hard time believing you "forgot" your boyfriend was an active member of the forum on which you're posting threads about your relationship problems. Anyway between the distrust, the possible other girl, and the passive aggressiveness I'm gonna go ahead and say this one's not going to work out and you guys should probably break up. Good luck
Oct 16 2013 4:24AM
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ElMexicano
Posts: 639 - Karma: 400
Fucking girls, ... he needs to figure out I'm upset somehow magically .. USE YOUR WORDS ... guys usually aren't good at picking up clues/hints/things like that, talk to him and try to stay rational about it and don't come across as a paranoid bitch. That would probably just drive him away, just let him know you're concerned.

Yes go to the party, if there is no trust then you're already screwed.
Oct 16 2013 4:58AM
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LC.
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Ehhhhh... threeway? Can't imagine a more perfect situation. He'll be into it.
Oct 16 2013 5:39AM
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limedakine
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Lol, I actually did forget, but hey when you eat special cupcakes you can end up forgetting a lot of things by accident. And I do ski and she doesn't so I win on that front. Ended up talking to him about it last night, he feels awful and we aren't going now. Which is good ha.
Oct 16 2013 9:09AM
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TechnoPotamus
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as I have gotten older, one of the saddest things I've seen time and time again, is that girls/women generally in the 16-24ish age range seriously lack self confidence.

if this isn't a troll thread, OP really needs to take a damn stand and demand better for herself. It's just a shame, like c'mon ladies you have a lot to offer and you gotta believe in yourself and be confident! Don't take this kind of shit
Oct 16 2013 9:19AM
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limedakine
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And I would do that how??
Oct 16 2013 9:20AM
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maximiliaan
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obviously rape that girl and kill your boyfriend
Oct 16 2013 9:44AM
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TechnoPotamus
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drop this dude you're with right now because he's clearly more interested in other things and although things may be ok for the time being, this thing you have with him is going to fail sooner or later without a doubt.

more importantly, if he sees that he can say shit like you mentioned, and almost convince you to go to a girl's bday party who he has slept with before, he'll just keep pushing the envelope because he's going to realize you'll stick around no matter what.

You can do better. Bottom line.
Oct 16 2013 10:23AM
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Sdot.
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Good post. Couldn't agree more.
Oct 16 2013 12:32PM
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howlongcanausern
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pics pls
Oct 16 2013 12:37PM
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Da_Buddha
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I think your boyfriend needs to follow the advice of the trunk boiz

Oct 16 2013 5:10PM
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ModMommy
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We've got plenty of cute guys in Bozeman. SOunds like this one is hung up over his ex. Dump hime before he does something.
Oct 16 2013 5:27PM
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3-6-steeze
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I feel like you and your boyfriend are the kind of couple who drive around in a sunfire while you wear his snapback.
Oct 16 2013 5:36PM
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limedakine
Posts: 48 - Karma: 298
more like a 1998 4runner with a whitewater raft guide hat on lol
Oct 16 2013 6:58PM
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Gsince93
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I read that in a matriarchal black womans voice......mmm mmm *snaps* you tell her.
Oct 17 2013 12:58AM
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limedakine
Posts: 48 - Karma: 298
SO
We are not going to the birthday. He said it is not worth making me unhappy/ruining our relationship at all and he apologized for everything. He understands he's still on thin ice about the entire situation though.
 
Also he read my first post but nothing that you guys commented about...so I didn't think it was worth making a whole new thread about it haha. 
Oct 17 2013 2:00PM
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howlongcanausern
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holy shit he is playing you
Oct 17 2013 2:03PM
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limedakine
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Could be. But he has my McConkey ticket for tonight and my ticket for Warren Miller. Priorities man.
Oct 17 2013 2:13PM
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Bodhisattva_
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I can vouch for this


I am one of said good looking dicks in bozo
Oct 17 2013 2:14PM
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limedakine
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Oct 17 2013 2:20PM
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