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How much to contact her after?

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c-wayne
Posts: 253 - Karma: 906
so if you havnt noticed c-wayne is a shared username by a few people used for various purposes. There isnt one extremely retarted person, its multiple slightly retarted people.

The basic question we have been argueing among eachother is this- what should i do?

Bassicly i met this girl at my new job and instantly hot it off. She texted me consistantly every day and brought up that we should hangout and make plans. We talked a good bit every day and imo clicked as friends and maybe more. We hungout 3 times 2 of them being with friends and one time being just us. In that time i never really got a green light to make a move with her so kindof didnt. She kindof hinted she wanted to be just friends and i had other girls so i ws fine with it. But then saturday night she was tipsy and hinted to me that she wanted me to come hangout with her so we could see who the best kisser was. Sunday then after work we hungout got dinner and had a nice night together that involved alot of flirting and spooning. She spent the night and has a longish talk before we hooked up that we both wanted to stay single for the summer and that we would kindof be friends with benifits possible but mostly friends. Then we proceed to have great sex except i may have hurt her toward the end but all well) and then slept together. The next day she wasnt as flirty as normal and was a little akward and i gave her a kiss goodbye.

Now its been 2 days and she hasnt texted me atall and when i said goodmorning to her this morning she was very short with me and i stopped answering right away to keep the "power position" (as lame as it is i wanted to be the one in control and not waiting for her to text me) and hasnt talked to me like she usually would.

so what do you guys think i should do? my friends say to not worry about it and just wait for her to text me and if she doesnt atleast you got a good fuck out of it, but i actually (as gay as fuck as this is) kindof appreciate her as a friend and will be with her all summer as a coworker and we could possible be great friends/fwb/or more so. So basically i dont wanna blow this haha. Shes a cool girl. Usually i wouldnt care atall but this would be best not to mess up. My gut feeling sais things are a little weird with us and she might be regretting what we did or not happy about it or something, or it might be just in my head.

What does nsg think i should do? im 20 shes 21 btw
Apr 30 2013 9:17PM
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1337
Posts: 31038 - Karma: 29,003
don't shit where you eat son
Apr 30 2013 9:19PM
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Emma_Watson
Posts: 4483 - Karma: 6,662
texting is lame, call her
Apr 30 2013 9:20PM
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jameskiy
Posts: 396 - Karma: 3
have a big talk and ask her about her feelings and reassure her and shit, the worst thing you could do after banging a girl is ignoring her, specially if you wanna work with her
Apr 30 2013 9:21PM
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first_rodeo
Posts: 2383 - Karma: 7,764

use online dating to bang randoms

Apr 30 2013 9:22PM
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c_roll
Posts: 584 - Karma: 244
Dont talk to her unless she talks to you first. Act like you dont want anything to do with her and if she wants you, it will just make her want you more. Trust me, dont talk to her first
Apr 30 2013 9:23PM
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c-wayne
Posts: 253 - Karma: 906
this is what my normal hoe killer instincts tell me to do and unfortunately its usually the best way to do things. Im prolly just gonna do this to be safe
Apr 30 2013 9:27PM
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johnnyBuz
Posts: 1438 - Karma: 1,270
^ This

You tried to be mature about it and talk to her, reassure her, whatever. If she wants to be fucking weird and try to play some bullshit game with you just don't play it. Girls absolutely hate when you don't play their games. Just do your own thing and if she comes back to you, great. If not, it wasn't meant to be and she's got emotional problems.
Apr 30 2013 9:30PM
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0123456789
Posts: 9226 - Karma: 148
the fuck does having a shitty username hav to do with you fucking a girl like a highschooler and not being able to tell thats the case when she didnt call you back?
Apr 30 2013 9:31PM
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Rachy
Posts: 4355 - Karma: 2,761
I'm 100% serious when I say this. Wait for her to be drunk, then ask her what she's up to. If she wants you, she will make it happen.

If she doesn't want you, she will ignore you.
Apr 30 2013 10:09PM
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Pancake_Fucker
Posts: 1833 - Karma: 1,880
this
Apr 30 2013 10:43PM
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Scotty_B
Posts: 287 - Karma: 423
Is it really that hard to just fucking ask her to communicate?

if she says no then don't bother, she's a waste of your time.

If yes, then she will tell you what the deal is. Just don't go in with high hopes cause YOU have the power, NOT her.

Apr 30 2013 10:48PM
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Funnel
Posts: 7808 - Karma: 1,414
Damn. Sounds really similar to the situation I'm in right now.
May 1 2013 4:14AM
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