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7springsprod
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We've talked on rare occasions for the past couple years and Ive developed a liking to her. Wouldnt really consider ourselves "friends". But I figured it would be a good idea to try to get comfortable around eachother before prom and Ive been trying to hang out with her literally for the past month. Shes usually pretty busy so ok, whatever . But I asked if she wanted to hang 2 weeks in advance and she said probably. But then a couple days before we were suppose to hang, she said she was super busy with school work from missing school cause of track, and had to work all weekend. I unassumingly discovered she was at a party on saturday night and almost busted a nut. Should I call her out? Like Im genuinely mad because shes always been "too busy" to do anything with me. And she said this:"I'm not one to sit around, you only get so many days to live and hours to enjoy". Which made me almost bust my other nut: deeming me as a waste of time... What should I do?..
Apr 29 2013 10:07PM
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Tamas
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Yeah man. fuck her. she aint worth it.
Apr 29 2013 10:12PM
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CantTouchMySwag
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Apr 29 2013 10:14PM
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SamtheEagle
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if you call her out and act mad then she is definately not going to take a liking to you. Just be chill dude. it sucks but that is life
Apr 29 2013 10:15PM
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pmw
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so you've already busted two nuts and haven't even hung out with her?

nice.
Apr 29 2013 10:18PM
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.Hugo.
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I think that she can tell that you want to be more than friends with her and she doesn't want the same thing. She is probably just too scared to tell you and just keeps making excuses instead though. It's you call on calling her out though. If it gets heated you might lose a friend so if that is ok with you then say something. Otherwise just relax, go to prom with her and see if anything happens there
Apr 29 2013 10:19PM
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youngdtay
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No he almost busted a nut. Which is strange, because apparently he can only bust two nuts.
Apr 29 2013 10:20PM
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ESAND
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Wait, does bust a nut mean something different from what it did when I was in high school?
Apr 29 2013 10:45PM
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7springsprod
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Bump before bed. Im at a loss.
Apr 29 2013 11:08PM
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RJ_Res
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The repeatedly "too busy" thing is just a girls way of politely telling you she isn't interested in hanging out. It happens to everyone. Your best call is to just move on to the next one. Find someone who actually wants to spend time with you, instead of putting your effort into somebody who doesn't. I guarantee that if you keep looking, you'll find a girl that's into you.
Apr 29 2013 11:28PM
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SkiBum.
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FBGM

A motto any guy should live by

My next tattoo as well
Apr 29 2013 11:35PM
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*ninja*
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deff not worth it if she liked u shed say yes to hanging. and stop making excuses...
Apr 29 2013 11:38PM
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tripnip
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honestly dude i can relate pretty close and you have to look at it like this if they are not putting effort in they should receive no effort back.
Apr 29 2013 11:40PM
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daannnnieel
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I can't tell if you're 12 or just haven't matured yet.




And fuck her dude, it already sounds like there's better human beings out there. Invest your time and emotions elsewhere.
Apr 29 2013 11:40PM
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Bogs
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First off, I hope you didn't bust those nuts in a literal sense.

Second, seems like she's just not that into you. It sucks a lot, but it's probably time to move along. The fact that she's lying to you about it shows she's not that great anyway
Apr 29 2013 11:44PM
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SwagasaurusRex
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She probably isn't into you. She is just trying to get out of it. Cut your losses and leave her in the dust, she isn't worth it. Hell she probably can't even double.
Apr 29 2013 11:54PM
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SkiBum.
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No, I'm 12. My mom is going to sign for me so I can get my tattoo...
Apr 30 2013 12:11AM
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Forest.
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dont talk to her for awhile, if she wants the D she will come crawling the fuck back. If she doesn't go to prom have a good fucking time and move on.
Apr 30 2013 12:54AM
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Bachto
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Do this
Apr 30 2013 12:59AM
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will_powder
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Apr 30 2013 1:00AM
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robotdna
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Best advice I have is stop talking to her. If she's interested, she'll say something. And if not, you've already stopped talking to her.
Apr 30 2013 1:04AM
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daannnnieel
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You can see my confusion in why you're getting a tattoo that says "FBGM" though, right?
Apr 30 2013 1:05AM
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TRAP_CHEF
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Thank you so much for this video
Apr 30 2013 1:20AM
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HentaiHero
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Just toot it and boot it
Apr 30 2013 1:25AM
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fupaface
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I would say this concludes this thread ladies and gentleman.
Apr 30 2013 2:22AM
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Barefootin_Fiend
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girls like a challenge and you aren't one. you're too readily available for her. it doesn't sound like she's very interested. i'd quit calling her. ignore her. bitches hate getting ignored. if she starts to come around, great. if not, you didn't waste any more time.

time to move on, dude.
Apr 30 2013 2:31AM
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HungryHypocrite
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if shes like that she aint much of a friend anyway
Apr 30 2013 4:34AM
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myllhouse
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get that bitch pregnant then jokes on her.

but seriously find other girls and leave her as a possibility. Try to make lots of friends before you graduate so when you're done high school you are able to still bang or start relationships with girls that you sort of know.
Apr 30 2013 5:06AM
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7springsprod
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Due to the minimal flame recieved on this thread. 1.) NS is awesome, seriously its nice to have you guys and
2.) Im now going to consider pics after school of said subject so you guys can "provide a more accurate opinion.".
Apr 30 2013 6:36AM
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blazer258
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This
Apr 30 2013 6:44AM
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7springsprod
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And I guess I didnt clarify in OP: we are going to prom together.
Apr 30 2013 7:19AM
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Turner.
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In that case I guess you could approach her a little more gently. Don't get mad or call her, try saying that you think the two of you should hang out before prom to get to know each other better.

Also this sounds really familiar to my experience with my prom date. Everything went mostly okay between us so I'm sure you'll be fine.
Apr 30 2013 7:29AM
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pmw
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Just pop a Molly and sweat
Apr 30 2013 9:05AM
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timmi
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Well for one, clearly she's not brilliant if she blows you off and then goes to a party and doesn't expect to get caught.

On another note, if she's awkward around you you may want to consider aiming for a new prom date. That night is supposed to be super fun and you don't want the stress of "does this girl really want to be here with me yadda yadda yadda"
Apr 30 2013 9:28AM
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7springsprod
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Prom is a week from friday. Already have tickets and everything.. I went through that stress with HC with a different girl and that didnt end up well..


On a side note: this sucks..
Apr 30 2013 10:45AM
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Stickity
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hey ben do what i do and just don't try. sure you don't get any but there's also no disappointment or unnecessary bullshit
Apr 30 2013 10:48AM
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