I promised myself I wouldn't comment too much but -
The tricky thing that people don't realize about feminism is that it (as well as everything else) exists in a social context. These 'special rights' are usually things like women's centers which may offer resources on rape crisis etc. Because more women get raped than men, these services are necessary and proportional to demand, not 'special.' The end game is absolutely and always will be equality, but until it exists in all ways, there are going to have to be pragmatic solutions that look unequal.