But seriously if she has got to be interested in learning otherwise forget it because you can you take a horse to water but you cannot make them drink. So pretty much if she doesn't want to do it, it'll be not worth it.
If she is interested, teach her on some boxes for rails, get her to start spreading her weight even on them, and how to get it so that when she rides she feels more comfortable riding like that.
For spins, start taking her off some 10ft kickers and get her comfortable being in the air, start introducing some 180's both forward and switch, work on some 3's and so on. Work on grabs as wells.