I know that NSG is probably not the most ideal spot for a thread like this but here it goes....
I know I have done it before and probably would do it again except when you are in that position you know how shitty it feels.
I am talking about when you are having a conversation with someone and they just are a straight dickhead and it wouldn't typically bother you except something bad has happened in your life and your mind is on that.
Example: Just last night I saw a girl, Emily, that I have been kinda off and on with all year since college began and well she was with this other girl and my RA. Anyway, supposedly she waved to me and stuff but I didn't respond. I was drunk and high (stupid) trying to come to terms with the action that my friend took the other day.
My friend tried to kill himself and thank god was unsuccessful. He is currently in the hospital. Anyway this is basically the only thing on my mind. Why would my best friend ever want to end his good life. So I clearly wasn't thinking right..
Later I get a text from emily and she says you are an asshole. I said sorry what are you talking about, she said think about it fucking asshole. I just ignored it and drank some more because I can't deal with stupid shit right now.
Now today she texts me and wanted to go somewhere for lunch and to go shopping. I texted her like 4 hrs later and told her I was asleep, she asked if I was feeling sick, I said no just sick to my stomach about my friend and she responded by saying you're friends sick too. what did u do make out with him. I said actually my best friend tried to kill himself yesterday and is the hospital. So sorry I haven't been thinking coherently.....
Either way y'all should really think about what you say to people. You have no idea where they are emotionally, they can be dealing with some serious shit and don't want to deal with stupid bullshit.