I don't know what your style is, but I have the North Face Chizzler jacket and it is very nice. Great weight-- heavy enough to ski in but light enough to wear everyday with jeans. Yes its a mens jacket, I just bought a small...if you buy last years you may get a deal somewhere. But don't buy the grey from last year-- that's what I have and it's actually lavender/purple so you might not like it if you're a guy.
here is some more possible help. my brother rocks this jacket in black and he looks pretty good in it. He is masculine and the coat looks good on him and does isn't as preppy or metro as a pea coat if pea coats aren't your style ($130 on sale- michael kors/macys):
and then I personally really like this jacket. It works for dress up and dress down, but this particular one is $400.00 (backcountry.com)