If you ski aggressively than a 14-18 din binding would be appropriate for your size.
In my experience no binding is invincible. Every binding has parts that can and eventually will break.
Bindings I would suggest you look into are:
STH 16 steel
Marker Jester Pros
these are all burly bindings. But at the same time like any piece of equipment they will break under heavy use. STH and Axials are the most burly on this list and have the least breakable plastic parts. The heel plate and brake assembly on FKS are its weak spot and do break pretty often and are a bitch to replace. That is why I personally don't ride em.