be a pushover, but dont let them know youre being a pushover. girls hate pushovers, but they want you to be one. let her get her way but make it seem like you didnt want it and are willing to settle just cause she's all special and you love her and bla bla blaaa.
example:
guy - lets go out for dinner
girl - yeahhh id love that? where you want to go?
guy - how about [dinner spot]
girl - ehhh not a big fan
guy - ok i hear [other dinner spot] has great pasta
girl - no that's a little far and i'm not in the mood
at this point you'r irritated and hate that she's being difficult. she wants you to magically guess the right thing but she wont even fucking give you a hint as to what she's interested in. she probably doesn't evne fucking know, but she doesn't want you calling the shots and she wont call the shots.
be a pushover and keep playing the game until she finally says something like "well i'd love some tofu" and then start naming places that have that style of food. she'll eventually say "yes" to something and then make it seem like it was a great idea, even though you're pissed off. "yeahh that's sounds excellent great choice babe i'd love to have that", even though you're dont want that shit at all you want a steak.
play the stupid game, let her win, but dont be all "okkk fine you win i give up". she needs to feel like she earned it, even though she didn't earn shit. you just let her get her way cause if you didn't, you'd be having a giant argument and wouldn't be eating at all.
in your case, play the texting game. she wants you to chase, so chase. other times she wants you to chill and back off, so chill and back off. like i said in my other post, just go with it. every once in a while you gotta back the fuck off and remind her that you wont stand for that shit all the time, but then quickly resolve that by apologizing and letting her know that you're in the wrong and she's perfect and shit. "oh no babe i wasnt ignoring you at all i've just been really busy", meanwhile you're rolling your eyes thinking of course i was ignoring you bitch you fuckin playin me for a fool i gotta give you a reality check once in a while and let you know that if you want me to shut up, i will and not talk to you at all.
fucking girls man. i could write a book on this shit.
