Excuse my english for starters, I am from quebec. I will do my best to be gramatically correct in my story.
I come from a rich family to be completely honest, I was spoiled when I was a kid , but my parents though me a lot of stuff about money. The most important thing , and also the most simple thing is that you have to work to make money. Since I was 15 years old, I have been working in between school and soccer and that has helped me put money aside for my future. My parents started to make me pay for my cellphone/clothes/rent/school at 16.
I also have been able to travel a lot more than you will ever wish for. Some people would think i am a trust found kid but I always pay for my stuff. That also has made me a very generous person. I bring my friends on trip and pay everything and really dont think about the money at the end.
The only issue about this is that people started to take advantage of that. Way too much. For the last 3 summers I have been going to Oregon, spending lots of money and letting people crash for free, Id cook for them even . I have a lot of exemple like these. No one seems to care about paying back , and I really wonder why. But that is my problem.
My question is;
How can you feel confortable living when you know you owe money to someone? Not only owe money , but also see the person you owe the money to frequently while skiing or doing other activities? I know I wouldnt? Also, how can you spend money that you dont have ?