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Problems with your womens? ask a couples therapist something

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snocompton
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Just finished my masters from Northwestern in couples and family therapy, celebrating way to hard at 10 in the morning and im feeling the need to exercise my brain on your problems.  Anything relationship/family goes.  Dont hesitate to Pm if you have serious questions.

TROLL ME UR LOVE PROBLEMS NS I HAS A MASTER
Jan 18 2011 2:05PM
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SONlC
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Girlfriend went to college an hour and a half away. We have been dating for over 2 years before she went away and are still together. Jealousy is sometimes an issue on my part but I am trying to get over it. For a while I got pissed at her and blamed her for going away but it's slowly getting better now that we've made it through a whole semester. Any advice?
Jan 21 2011 11:13AM
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SONlC
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Oh and also this


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Jan 21 2011 11:23AM
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deleted5
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im going to major in Behavioral Scienceso not only will i be better at this, but ill be Click for larger image
Jan 21 2011 11:25AM
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Benjo
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bump for master advice
Jan 21 2011 12:05PM
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snocompton
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Take it easy.  First year of college is always a very interesting time for everyone and long distance relationships can be really tough to maintain.  If you trusted this girl before you left you should have no reason to not trust her now.  Keep your relationship healthy by being honest and open and night hiding anything.  This is how problems can build up very quickly if you dont bring that kind of crap to the surface.  And its very easy for a simple phone conversation to go bad quickly and end up creating a lot of problems and emotional discomfort so remember to THINK before you speak when you are feeling jealous or upset about something. 
Jan 21 2011 3:36PM
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snocompton
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talk shit when you get a degree and then masters. 
Jan 22 2011 3:25PM
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snocompton
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The best advice an old man ever gave me,

"Son, its sometimes best to bite your tongue so you dont end up biting your own dick off, you get what im saying?"
Jan 23 2011 2:09PM
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Ducky.
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Ok, bear with me for this one.

There is this girl in a few of my classes. But she has a boyfriend.

Some of the signs I receive from this girl, kinda give me the signal that she may be into me. Whenever we make eye contact, she smiles, she goes out of her way to talk to me, sits by me in class sometimes, when allowed, asks me for rides home, stuff like that. And whenever she refers to her boyfriend when talking to me, she only refers to him as her "friend", not "boyfriend". Does this mean anything?

I also have this girl's phone number. She doesn't seem to be big on texting, but she never texts/calls/facebooks me.

So I guess what I'm trying to ask is, even though she has a boyfriend, should I keep chasing her? Or move on.
Jan 23 2011 2:26PM
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applejuice.
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analrapist.
Jan 23 2011 3:11PM
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pmw
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Jan 23 2011 3:23PM
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pmw
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probably not
Jan 23 2011 3:23PM
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Noss.
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>implying women create/are the problems
Jan 23 2011 3:24PM
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bakedpow
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So there is a girl we have been friends for a while and we were starting to get close, i was about to ask her out then i moved for year. I came back moved back 3 weeks ago and meet her at a dance party and we danced and what not. I kept getting the vibe that she is still into me. Later that night i was informed she had a boyfriend. But less than 2 days later they break up and she tells me the reason is complicated. What i am wondering is this girl just leading me on (she has been known to do that) or is she actually into me?
Jan 23 2011 3:43PM
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pmw
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your fucking stupid
Jan 23 2011 4:01PM
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snocompton
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Give it time.  Just because she broke up and you just got back doesn't necessarily mean anything.  Take it easy and dont try to rush anything.  Read some of my other posts if you wanna know how to tell if shes interested. 
Jan 23 2011 8:59PM
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Jan 25 2011 6:20PM
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poluhasuper
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psychotherapist minus the "the"
Jan 25 2011 6:26PM
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