and, because some people are fucking retarded (not really aimed at you T-Holt) and don't know when a post(s) was(were) clearly intended to be humorous/entertaining/etc., let me clarify that I was not serious in my claim that I'd smash that thing. Just trying to stir the pot a little bit
The "essence" of my post was accurate and does represent me fairly well, meaning that I don't base my decision to sleep with someone or not solely on their physical attractiveness, or even more accurately, on their OVERALL attractiveness. For example, I slept with a girl when I was in college who was Puerto Rican. She wasn't all that conventionally attractive...slightly overweight, but she spoke Spanish fluently, she was aggressive and confident, and I was sorta feeling her "persona". I slept with her because I wanted to have the experience....and you know what? I'm really glad I did. If I was hiding behind some "I have high standards because I'm the fucking man and get plow any chick I want" nonsense, I would have missed out on some of the most memorable and satisfying sexual experiences I've ever had.
Sometimes I find one or two things incredibly attractive in a person and that causes me to forgive other potentially glaring flaws, including being overweight. If I like a chick, we're vibing well, and I find SOMETHING about her attractive (smile, ass, hair style, whatever) I'm into it....even if at first glance I wouldn't have been interested in the least.
I do understand that some people have a natural revulsion to overweight people, and that's fine. I don't REALLY think that anyone who won't screw a big girl is insecure...I can't believe I have to explain this part.
