I'm convinced that I (and most other men) take my (their) frustrations out on women by hooking up with women. Think about it....
the girls that you really like or are perceived as unattainable blow you off sometimes. So what do you do? You turn the give a shit meter off to eliminate emotional vulnerability. and then a woman recognizes that burst of confidence, and you get laid... or you're supposed to...
the girl of my dreams left me hanging, and so I turned my give a shit meter off. Went to my buddys house, completely not planning on drinking. Women come over, we start drinking (heavily) and all of a sudden, some random bittie thinks I'm "super cute." All of a sudden, she's hanging on my every word and hugging me and kissing me and I'm like "where did this come from?"
Things look good, going back to my place, and then, all of a sudden, I get this.
"ok just letting you know, I'm a virgin, and plan to keep it that way"
"I want to get to know you better, cause I feel like I really like you"
haha, really? You met me 4 hours ago and you think you really like me? Get real. I think you should know we're hooking up. If you are planning on turning this in to a long term thing, realize that you looked like you were ready to fuck me an hour ago. I'm not gonna date you. I'm trying to get my nut to get over the girl that made me feel insignificant.
And I highly doubt you're a virgin. come on now! you sure don't dress like one!
So to all you women out there: if you string a guy along, just now that we are going to pass that bullshit off to someone else, and its highly probable it will be a female. Think about that when you lead a guy on then blow him off. Karma is a bitch, and that shit eventually comes back to you. 6 degrees of separation... so the next time you complain about men not being caring and opening up, remember that guy that you blew off and made him feel like an insignificant spec. and then you'll know why we keep our doors closed for as long as we can.
to all you men out there: think with your mind and heart, not your cock, as I did. You will either a) hook up with her and feel like an idiot the next day or b) get blue ballled, like me, and still feel like an idiot the next day.
slow play is the way to go. women are the root of the one night stand, as mentioned above.