This is fine, and I would understand if it took him 5 days to ship, or even 10...he has told me twice that he was "shipping tomarrow" and both of these times I messaged him days later to find out he never sent the stuff. It's the principle, if he couldn't send it he should have told me it was gonna be a while, or he should have just left the money in Paypal, If I was moving and I wasn't going to be able to ship things, I wouldn't be taking people's money.
I told him mutiple times that he could have put the money back into my acct without me making abig deal about it, but instead I get "what are you whining about now". This just isn't professional. I just want my money back, or my lens here in a hasty manner.