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So my sister might have Cancer.

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14.
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Im pretty pissed? i dunno what to really think right now but im done thinking about it and i have nothing better to really do but go on this site, i cant go visit her in her room cause there figuring out the prognosis? or whatever i dunno im just rattled right now

basically it started out as abdominal pain and now there keeping her over night. i have camp in a week and i dunno if i even am gonna fuking go

im gonna be honest i need vibes right now NS
Jul 9 2009 1:37AM
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[_KyLe_]
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Man, if I know NS all of us will be pulling for her. +vibes and hope that it all turns out ok.

Jul 9 2009 1:39AM
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blackoutbill
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+++vibes bro. I hope everything turns out ok
Jul 9 2009 1:40AM
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0123456789
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damn man, that realy sucks, ive had a family member pass from brain cancer, shit is the worst, theres just nothing they can do about it.

vibe to your sis, hopefully she dosent get it.
Jul 9 2009 1:40AM
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PhilboydStudge
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damn man that sucks. hope for the best
Jul 9 2009 1:40AM
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MrYeates
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shit dude... sorry to hear that man
superrr shitty
+ vibes for sure... be praying for her man
Jul 9 2009 1:41AM
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FUUUCK
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that fucking sucks dude, hopefully it's nothing.
Jul 9 2009 1:42AM
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Hannah.
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tons of + vibes man i empathize
Jul 9 2009 1:42AM
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assface
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+++vibes
Jul 9 2009 1:43AM
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Detroit_Steeze
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Sorry to hear about the bad news, Vibes to the max. Try and spend a lot of time with her and comfort her. Hope everything will clear up.
Jul 9 2009 1:43AM
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Lake-Dog
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++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
VIBES
Jul 9 2009 1:44AM
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14.
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im hoping dude

there saying her effects dont point positivly, theyll know in a couple hours.
i might try and catch some sleep but i dunno if ill beable to, shes only 24, im 16
Jul 9 2009 1:44AM
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and thanks guys, +k for all
Jul 9 2009 1:48AM
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604ChittyCrunk
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yo man, the shit runs in my family... I know what you are going through. First off im sorry to hear that. But man, all you can do is give your sister all the support you can, alot of different types of cancer are treatable, and if your sister has a good atitude towards it she can fight...hard.

But bro... You cant steal her thunder... She needs YOUR vibes, and positive vibes from the people around her.

But on the same note, your going to go through a tough period in your life, you are going to learn a lot about life and everything it throws at us. So for that all I can say is, be prepared for the worst, but expect the best.

Jul 9 2009 1:57AM
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14.
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thanks bro.
Jul 9 2009 2:00AM
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jibbinc.
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Vibes dude
i feel for her.
Jul 9 2009 2:03AM
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Microcosm
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++++++++ vibes man, best of luck to you and your family
Jul 9 2009 2:09AM
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Leeyum
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my thoughts and prayers with your family ++++ vibe
Jul 9 2009 2:25AM
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crazyfuck
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++++++++vibes+++++++++

hoping for the best, man!
Jul 9 2009 2:29AM
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ryan.s
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holy shit thats horrible, hope ts nothing... gve us n update
Jul 9 2009 2:35AM
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skier_boy26
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pretty cleanly said.

My father was diagnosed with cancer back when I was in high school. Had the worst prognosis, aside from just dying then and there. He beat it all, he was always optimistic about the fight. That's what you gotta do if it turns out to the case. It'll be super hard, but resilience and devotion are going to be key. Hopefully it's nothing major, but if it is, just help her with the fight, because it could be so treatable. It's amazing what medicine can do these days.
Jul 9 2009 2:36AM
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backwardsrider
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positive vibrations to you man

they matter the most

Jul 9 2009 2:37AM
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Funnel
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That's rough man.  I have to be careful about putting on sunscreen.  I have skin cancer in my family.  Fucking sucks.  That's life though.  +++vibes.
Jul 9 2009 2:38AM
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merrick
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all the best bro!
++++Vibes
Jul 9 2009 2:44AM
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taaayyla
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aww dude major vibes! lots of cancer's are treatable so lets hope first off all that it isn't cancer, but if it is that she will be able to get healthy again. My aunt just had non-hodgkins lymophoma this year and the most important thing is to just provide unwavering support+love to your sister! i hope things work out for the best!!!
Jul 9 2009 3:26AM
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anxju
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++++vibes
Jul 9 2009 3:29AM
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steezeeepolizeee
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I have two quotes from Epicurus that I think you may find some comfort in because I know that they have helped me before

It is not so much our friends' help that helps us, as the confidence of their help.
Epicurus

The greater the difficulty, the more the glory in surmounting it.
Epicurus
Jul 9 2009 3:34AM
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ORski21
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+++ vibes man. that sucks

The only advice i have is be positive around your sister. Talk to her about stuff she likes, make her happy and help her know she will get better. My grandma who I was pretty close with had cancer. You've got to be strong for her. If she does have it, it would help for her to be emotionally supported and strong to deal with all the physical strain disease and medicine have on a body
Jul 9 2009 5:00AM
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StanMcStanson
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++vibes man, hope she's all right.
Jul 9 2009 9:07AM
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GratefulDead
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I am hoping for the best, and when i say this, i would think that the rest of ns is too.
++++++++Vibes, really sorry to hear this.
Jul 9 2009 9:16AM
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inactive
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im so sorry man, it will be on my mind today... i'll shred for her
Jul 9 2009 9:20AM
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PSiekierski
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im sorry to hear that, hopefully shell be alright.
Jul 9 2009 9:32AM
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BEagle
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+Vibes man, 4 years ago both my mom and my grandma got diagnosed with breast cancer at the same time. My mom made it and is awesome now but my grandma didnt. I know what it is like.
If the tests are positive for cancer and she has to go through treatment there are a couple things to think about. First, you are gonna feel completely powerless as you watch them go against one of the worst things someone can go through. To me, that is the hardest. Second, its really easy to over think trying to help. In the end, the biggest thing to do is just spend time with her. She will act and look sick and you just have to be there for her. That is the MOST important thing. It is really wierd. You hear the word cancer and everyone knows its terrible, but then when you go through it and you are with someone who has it, it will seem like they are just sick with the flu or something. Its hard to explain. Third, the biggest thing I did for my mom was shave my head down to the skin before she lost her hair from chemo. It may seem corny but thinking about the time I showed her reminds me how important it was for her. It is a really big deal for a woman to lose her hair and if she has to, having someone kind of ease you into it is huge. Seriously, I could talk about this for a long time. If you need extra anything PM me I would love to give you support.
In the end, just be there for her and spend quality time with her. Remember that she is going to be very scared the whole time so you should NOT show her your fear. When you are confident it rubs off on them. Dude, ugh, Im sorry. But just show as much love to her as you possibly can and I am sure it will be ok. Much love.
Jul 9 2009 9:49AM
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charmander
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damn dude, +vibes for sure.

my grandpa and great grandpa died from cancer, but they were super old, and it was from asbestos.

y'know, with medicine how it is today, even if she has cancer, shes got a pretty decent chance of recovery.

just hang in there man, it'll all end up good eventually.
Jul 9 2009 9:52AM
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p-oskier
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++ vibes. My brother had cancer a couple of years ago. Its hard but life does not stop. Go to your camp and try to think about other stuff.

Jul 9 2009 10:20AM
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70794Willow
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shit man. that sucks so bad.
+++vibes for sure.

my mom had cervical cancer but fortunately the surgeons were able to remove it on time and it hadn't spread at that point. so i know how u must feel.
i hope everything turns out to be fine!!
let us know
Jul 9 2009 10:41AM
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snwbrdmilf
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This was a really awesome post. And I'm sure gives the OP some insight.
Jul 9 2009 10:55AM
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no_steeze
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++++++vibes to you and your sister, hope she pulls through

i have a friend whose cancer just went into remission, we're hoping it lasts for as long as possible, it'd be nice if it never came back. it was amazing to see how positive he stayed through everything. he was still himself. the cancer took so much from him including his aspirations to become an artist- he couldn't go to art school- and to see him pull through it and get it into remission just gives me the greatest feeling and that he deserves it 110%. make sure your sister and you both stay positive because it sounds cliche but it can save you, give her a reason to keep fighting and hopefully it will all turn out for the best
Jul 9 2009 11:05AM
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.Asain-Skiier
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+ vibes man
a friends mom had cancer in the danger zone area but she is fine now

Jul 9 2009 11:11AM
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.Asain-Skiier
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+ vibes man
a friends mom had cancer in the danger zone area but she is fine now

Jul 9 2009 11:12AM
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Jahhsss
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++++++VIBEs man
Jul 9 2009 11:14AM
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anTii_SteeZe
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wow
++vibes
Jul 9 2009 11:17AM
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J-Neal
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Hey man, I hope everything works out okay. NS is pulling for her.

+++ vibes

Jul 9 2009 11:27AM
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kzrstf
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damn that sucks... tell her that newschoolers is supporting her
+vibes
Jul 9 2009 11:33AM
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R-B-B
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just keep on truckin and be with your family every step of the way, ++++++++vibes
Jul 9 2009 12:11PM
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Style+eeze
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+vibes man. i feel bad for you. it's all good though, she can fight through it! also, show her this thread... hopefully she'll get some confidence out of it.
Jul 9 2009 12:11PM
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Shredneck
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++++ Vibes dude
Jul 9 2009 12:26PM
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14.
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UPDATE

Sorry i fell asleep last night guys, its probably good that i got some
Your prays came through NS they really did

But early this morning i checked in with the docters and they said that they have some good news

She doesn't have cancer, but its not all good news, she has a removeable tumor in her lungs or something, probably from all the smoking she fuckin did

Anyway, so its not a cancer tumor but it might leave lung damage
The surgery will take place later on todday

Im pretty happy but still just overall depressed
My dad had to go early and i still havent told him the good news

i still had to tell my sister she had a tumor though, and ive realized something, its not  her that has to stay strong, its everyone in the family, if we all pull together for her she has a chance, postive strong attitude towards life delivers profound results, i dunno

Just keep the prayers comin,
Jul 9 2009 12:45PM
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jib_danboy
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dude im sorry happy to hear its not cancerous! ++++vibes, thoughts and prayers to your sis, you an your family! no one should have to go through that!
Jul 9 2009 12:54PM
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K2theExtreme
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my thoughts and prayers that everything turns out ok
Jul 9 2009 12:58PM
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skinakedfast
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+++ Vibes man stay strong for her and your Parents man everyone will need eachother now. Really hope this turns out okay man.

Jul 9 2009 1:01PM
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