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Dinner and a movie is too typical these days, you gotta do something different. Agreed on the fun and chill part. Movies for a first date puts a lot of pressure on both of you....sitting together in a dark room...do you make a move? Does she? Should you share the arm rest? For most guys too many things run through their mind during a movie...
opt for something you can do together. putt putt golf is fun, laser tag, go karts, etc....girls like it when they can interact with you instead of just sitting there.
yess do one of these!
Don't always let her win, not all girls like that. If she always wins its not fun, make it a challenge. Make a bet, say if she scores on you then idk...you'll get her ice cream, and if you score on her, no ice cream. Stuff like that.
Oh, and don't over do the compliments, girls like cheesy stuff but only to a certain extent.
I actually like board games, stuff like Life, chess, sorry and others are fun because you have to think about it. When I'm focused on winning I'm already having fun because i'm competing. A lil side bet is a sweet incentive too.
Ok this one has been fool proof for me. Pull the old switcheroo. Go to the movie first, then the dinner. It gives you at least one thing to talk about with her during the dinner. And try and make it all tied in. If your seeing an italian movie, get italian food afterwards. Shit like that. Works like a charm. Just do whatever your doing before the dinner. Its a fool proof convo starter.
i have sadly lost at mini golf a few times not on purpose. i've also been dating a girl for 3 years so of course she'll never let me live it down.
if anyone has any cool idea for stuff to do thats fun that you think we havent done let me know. i'm always looking for fun stuff we havent done before to spice stuff up. and we've pretty much done everything.
im sure you're much to young for this but go out to a club and chill? treat her as a good friend dont be sweet or whatever..... once the alcohol gets flowin you'll know if she likes you or not pretty quick.
and i dont mean fuckin crunk stickin your hand up her passed out skirt.... just socially buzzin'