I do not necessarily agree with the author, but I do find this issue interesting. I would like to see how other men view this, It is very close along the lines of tucker max.... I did show this article to a friend of mine last year who was having trouble along these lines and within a month he was quite "improved".
The Truth About Women
I wasn't a sexist before I understood women. There was a time when I was blissfully ignorant.
I grew up watching Disney
cartoons, I believed in romance and " true
love conquers all" etc. I wanted to find a woman who could be my equal,
my partner. I believed in finding that one true love and being
committed to each other forever. You know, like in the marriage vows,
"for better or for worse, through sickness and in health, for richer or
for poorer" etc. And I believed that women basically wanted the same
thing. Now I understand that this was only possible when society was
structured to enforce it. Now that women are "liberated" (and thus at
the mercy of their own emotions and baser instincts) this is mostly no
longer possible in today's society. Victorian society, or many Arab
societies, are examples of how society used to be structured to keep
women as faithful as possible.
I'd like to point out that I am not a misogynist...I love women. But I
AM a sexist, in the sense that I believe women are vastly different
than men and, according to the standards that men hold for other men,
women are inferior as well.
I must be a bitter loser, right? In fact, I enjoy more success with
women than most of the men in this city. I have slept with over 200
women in my life. I am sleeping with 5 different women right now. They
are all normal, healthy, well-adjusted, good-looking (8+ on the looks
scale) professional women. (At least as normal and healthy and
well-adjusted as women can be - most women have issues.) But that's not
all. I can go out any night of the week and pick up a woman. I can pick
her up in front of all her friends (with 80% efficiency for each
approach.) Women will slip me their phone
number when their boyfriend is in the bathroom. I can talk to women on
the street or in the grocery store and within 30 minutes, I can usually
have sex with them right there in my car
or get them back to my place. If I have to settle for a phone number,
and I meet her on another day, assuming she doesn't flake, I WILL @#%$
her that next day.
Let me point out right now that my Modus Operandi doesn't change in the
slightest if she single or if she has a boyfriend or husband. I just do
my normal routine and I @#%$ her. Sometimes she brings up the boyfriend
so she won't feel guilty when I @#%$ her because now it's "my fault."
Sometimes she hides it from me until after I've @#%$ her, then she
admits it. I can't tell you how many times I've been laying next to
some chick, all sweaty cause I just finished busting a nut all over her
face or in her mouth or on her back, and suddenly her phone rings and
she's on the phone with her man, giving him some bullshit story. This
is with NO GUILT WHATSOEVER!!! The sweetest most innocent girls you
ever laid eyes on, will cheat
at the drop of a HAT. The one thing that most men value most - loyalty
- is just not there with women. Women don't think in terms of honor,
women don't say "word is bond;" women are basically emotionally driven.
If they feel it, they do it, period. Then they rationalize it to
themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling, to a woman
than (1) the way she feels and (2) learning more about her own inner
self and having emotional realizations. That's why women love
astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, stupid Cosmo quizes that
supposedly reveal info about yourself, etc.
I must be really good looking, right? NOPE. My looks are marginal; I'm
maybe a 7. I don't work out (though I'm not fat or anything.) In fact I
didn't have any success with women until I was in my early 20's. That's
when I decided to go out a lot and start trying to get laid... I was
willing to face rejection a thousand times a night, and do it over and
over, trying everything, until I got it right. I had to completely set
my ego aside. I didn't get laid at all for the first few months. Then
every now and then. Then pretty often. Then downright consistently! I'm
in my early 30's now and I am basically a sexual god. I wouldn't have
even believed this were possible when I was in high school
The ONLY factor that determined whether a woman would cheat was my own
skill level. When my skills were poor, women @#%$ all over me.
(Everyone knows how women think they have license to be rude bitches in
social situations... in fact I understand and appreciate that behavior
now.) But once my skills got good, I could @#%$ just about anyone's
wife or girlfriend. And many times I didn't know they had a man until
after I @#%$ them.
Look, I'm not saying that men are perfect, or whatever. Far from it.
I'm just saying, I've spent a lot of my time studying women and
interacting with them, and I know how they are. In fact, sometimes I
hate knowing it. Sometimes I wish I had taken the blue pill, and never
went down the rabbit hole, because now there's really no going back. I
didn't want to believe these things... but how could I ever get married
now? How could I ever be the chump who pays for everything and
blissfully goes through life not worrying about his woman because he
trusts her? Look, would you leave your dog alone with a steak? You
can't hate the dog for doing what's in its nature. You can't trust a
dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE a dog. Some men are disloyal... but
I could *never* trust a woman to be loyal. Some men are bad
presidents...but I could *never* vote for a woman to be president. I
can rarely expect a woman to regard her own promises as more important
and compelling to her than the emotions she feels in the moment. She
will rationalize it to herself later.
Here's an interesting fact. Did you know that the median 22 year old
woman has TWICE as much sex as the median 22 year old man? You might
ask, how is that possible? If a woman's having sex, doesn't that mean a
man is having sex at the same time? And thus, shouldn't men be having
just as much sex as women? NO...because most men hardly get laid, or if
they do, it's because they "got lucky." But a small group of men get
laid ALL THE TIME, and @#%$ LOTS AND LOTS of women! It's evolution at
work. Women follow their emotions, and that leads them to sleep with
men like me (who know how to control female emotions.) Women want the
top man...so the top man fucks lots of women. That's right - the sexual
revolution, feminism, etc has resulted in a return to harems. Women, at
the mercy of their own emotions, are volunteering for the modern-day
equivalent of harems. Lucky for me!! Heh.
You might say, "But...but...I'm so nice! I'm a nice guy!" Guess what?
That's like a fat chick saying, "But I'm so smart!" As if those things
have anything in the world to do with sexual attraction!
I'm going to give some tips here for the poor sucker guys who are
posting online trying to get laid and who are spending hundreds /
thousands of dollars on all those whores out there without getting any
play. (You bitches know exactly what you're doing, and I'm on to your
* Don't be sexually judgemental in any way. A woman's worst fear is to
be perceived as a slut. She will suck your toes and take it in the ass
if she thinks you don't view her poorly for it (and she knows her
friends won't find out.)
* Don't get angry at her. Women know they have emotional outbursts and
they need to trust that you can handle that. It's ok (and necessary) to
occasionally put your foot down...just make sure she knows you are
fully in control of yourself.
* Don't let her manipulate you or control you in any way. She will
immediately lose all respect for you. Always be leading. It's just like
dancing - women hate a man who can't lead.
* When first approaching a woman or a group, they tend to get a feeling
like this is just your little scheme to get close to them, when you
really just want something from them - like sex. (And they're right.)
It's important to structure your body language and conversation so that
they honestly don't believe you want something from them. They should
feel like you are about to leave at any second.
* DON'T TRY TO IMPRESS HER IN ANY WAY. Don't show off. Don't talk about
accomplishments or possessions. As soon as she perceives that you are
trying to prove yourself to her, she loses all interest.
* Don't ignore her friends. A woman values her friend's opinions more
than just about anything else in the world. Nothing matters to her more
than what other women are thinking. Give her friends lots of attention
and get everyone laughing. If one woman is feeling different than the
others, she will drag them away. They will follow like a flock of
pigeons. Society is the book of women. (Notice that men do NOT behave
this way! Women are very different!)
* To get a woman attracted / emotionally vulnerable, give her lots of
emotions and feelings. Don't just make her feel good. Make her feel
good, and angry, and sad, and connected, and astonished, and intrigued,
etc. Make her laugh. Tease her. Tell stories about your sick puppy.
Tell her why things would never work out between the two of you. Call
her a dork. If she gets heated up, she will start touching
you...playfully push her away. If she calls you a jerk and punches your
arm, you are doing it right. If she gives you that "I can't believe you
just said that" look, do NOT back down, do not say "Oh I'm just
kidding" or anything like that.
* As she gets more emotional, she will try to ruin things by throwing
in logic. She will ask you if you are a player, or if you say this to
all the girls, or whatever. The trick is this: Don't take it seriously
by giving it some logical answer! That's right...women lose interest if
you take them seriously!!! It's crazy but that's how they behave. Just
blow it off or misinterpret what she's saying as though she is coming
on to you. If you fail these tests, she will be gone so fast your head
* She will start asking you lots of questions. This is what chicks do
when they suddenly find themselves attracted to a man they know nothing
about. This is your chance to open up a little and also find out more
about her and build a deeper connection. You have to do this, or she
will flake later (even if you've kissed her!) Women are the worst
flakes in the world! Don't make it too easy for her, make her work for
it a bit. Then talk about connections and childhood memories and things
you have in common, etc. She needs to feel that this is genuine. This
is usually the time when I throw in a few fake vulnerabilities, like
pretending I'm shy or insecure about something. I know it's @#%$ up but
women need to see that there are at least a few small holes where they
can sink their hooks in you. They get uneasy if you are too perfect.
* Make sure she gets the feeling that you have standards and that you
are judging her based on them. Ask her questions that show her you are
checking her out to see if she is up to snuff. Women don't like to feel
like you are with them only because you can't do any better. They
prefer to feel like you have high standards; you can get any chick you
want, but you chose HER because she is SOOOO special and SOOOO
different from all the others. Yeah, I know.
* Move her to different locations. Take her next door for a drink. Take
her across the street to check out some art. The more locations the
* Take responsibility for every escalation. A woman will do just about
anything as long as she doesn't have to feel like it was "her fault."
Make it YOUR fault. Make it "just happen." She will rationalize it to
herself later using the same bullshit generator that women use to flake
out on dates at the last minute. Don't get her horny until you get her
isolated. Believe me, emotional is better than horny.
* Keep the woman always swinging somewhere between validation and
rejection. If she feels rejected, she drops out or gets REALLY MAD. And
if she feels too validated, she will ditch you in a heartbeat. So push
her away (emotionally) and then pull her back in.
* BELIEVE YOUR OWN BULLSHIT. Chicks do not look at your excuses and try
to see if they are bullshit or not... because that is the logical thing
to do, and chicks are not logical. Rather, what they do is see if YOU
seem to believe your own bullshit when you say it. If you look like you
do, then chances are, they will believe it too. So the key is to
believe your own bullshit, and other aspects about yourself that you
want the chick to believe about you too (alpha male..whatever)...
because your own self beliefs for some reason will automatically
'impart' to the chick!
* One more thing...many guys make the mistake of listening to female
romantic advice. Don't listen to them, THEY DON'T KNOW WTF THEY ARE
TALKING ABOUT, and they WILL steer you wrong. They will tell you what
they THINK they want, instead of what they actually RESPOND to. And
furthermore, a large part of the female sexual experience IS the
inability to admit these things BECAUSE they derive sexual pleasure
from putting up resistance and being overwhelmed.
If you do things this way, after a few months practice you WILL get
laid like a rock star. The guys who get laid are the ones who know what
they are doing, because they have practiced on lots of women.
Ironically, women are most attracted to the men who are most likely to
@#%$ them and then dump them on their ass - because those are precisely
the men who have so many other options because they practice on lots of
women. That's why you always hear women bitching about how men are
assholes that only want to @#%$ them and dump them - because those are
the men that they gravitate to.
Women tend to wise up when they get towards their 30s, and they start
looking for a nice wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all
their @#%$. As they get older, they will get more and more desperate to
find this guy. Once they do, they will cheat on him with an exciting
fun guy like me. (But who wants to @#%$ some old chick in her 30's?
That's what beta males are for! Heh)
Hey, don't blame me - I didn't make things the way they are. I was just a guy who wanted to get laid. And I do :-)