sticks and stones people, its just a fucking word. it used to have strong offensive connotations and that what all you are clinging to. its now pretty much a joke. stop getting so butt hurt. i use it all the time, i have been told by plenty a black man that it is fine for me to say, they dont care anymore. its not like im walking around going "yo nigger, shine my shoes."
landis, my nigger! how many times did i ever drop the n bomb around you and use in a derogative way? never, the meaning has changed. if black people are calling themselves niggers, i dont see why little white kids start crying when see/hear it.
I don't wanna talk to you no more, you empty headed animal food trough wiper! I fart in your general direction! Your mother was a hamster and your father smelt of elderberries!
Gravity is a harsh mistress.