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I dont know what to do!?!?!
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so i like my gf alot but i cant stand her best friend
they are always hanging out an i cant seem to find time alone with my gf cuz her friend is always there
so last night i get a call from her friend telling me how shitty of a boyfriend i am
idk if i can take it any longer
should i break up with her just to get away from her friend?
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Talk to your gf about it, see what she says, you obviously cant stop her seeing her best friend but you can see her and ask if her friend wont be there.
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ya just talk to youf gf about, be like no offense but you think we could do something alone without your friend being there?
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i do but there always together
literally when ever i call her there either together or planing to be latere
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problem solved...
no but seriously just off the bitch, your gf will understand if she really likes you...
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well girls always kinda call us dogs so i think this is kinda warranted.
so when a dog exhibits a behavior you don't like the best thing to do is walk away thus removing any positive stimulus the dog could be receiving from you.
same with your girlfriend. if your gf is with her best friend leave. if she calls to hang out with you ask if youll be hanging out with her best friend then say you would not like to hang out. if her best friend shows up when youre hanging out leave. or if you can't leave stop talking or responding to her at all. if your girlfriend is considerate at all she will pick up on this and ask you what is wrong and that is when you tell her her best friend is a jerk and you dont like her or hanging out around her. i had to do this once. my gf was like "oh my god, you dont like my best friend!?" and i was like ummm not really she's never nice to me and gives me no reason to like her. but then my gf told her best friend and her best friend was a lot more nice to me. but it may go the other way so just be careful. goodluck.
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yah dude, your gf not going to hate you if you ask for some one on one time, if anything shell be happy.
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