Yeah, has any of you lived a big break out...when i say big,i just mean that it was a big relation, long and doing good....like so long that you were talking about mariage, kids and stuff like that with your girlfriend... You know when you had based your life on her....
if so, what did you do? if she tells you that she doesnt love you anymore, and thats its definitive,(not because something happen between you e,g, cheating...) what approach should you use if you want her to come back one day???
can you try to ignore her and she will come back crying to you or something like that? lots of people are saying that..
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that my friend is up to her. make the break amicable and then do your thing, recover, cry, see how many random hos you can bang in a week, then try to break that record, whatever. The balls in her court now, you just gotta keep on givin 'er.
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eh, part of me says just move on and try to forget about her cause she isnt the one. But another part of me says that she will probably come back. And, from the sound of it, that is what you want. But, if she does come back, why did she leave in the first place, and like someone said, what is stopping her from leaving again. How old are you? If your 19 and you really really love this girl then i would say wait a little and see what happens. If your 13 then you should just forget about her and move on. It's very unlikely that oyu will marry your girlfriend at 13. (I hate when people say that kind of thing to me, but it's the truth.) -Jason
she'll come back probably. I dont know if she'll really love you again but she'll come back. I went out with a girl for a little longer than a year. One week she just sorta wouldnt talk to me anymore and then we broke up. A few months later she liked me again and it was all good until she dumped me again a few months later. What I did after we broke up was just try and be her friend.
yah..actually, i dont know if i mentioned it, but on september 7th, she is leaving for mexico for 3 or 4 months...!! Drink 1 BASE a day, Keep the doctor away.
thanks to all the pertinant replyer, keep replying , and to the last one, first she likes my penis, and second, its soo big that if i slap her, its going to kill her... Drink 1 BASE a day, Keep the doctor away.
you have to fuck her best friend....do a really good job though so her friend will go hobbling over to her and tell her how hard you fucked her and how stupid she was to leave you and then when she wants you back make her get on her knees and beg and then deny her anyway.
seriously though don't burn any bridges you won't EVER be able to make it work if you're a complete dick to her and make yourself look like an asshole
yah but if it was because i cheated on her, than she could say ok fine, i love you, i let you another chance...but its because she`s saying that she just doesnt love me anymore.. Drink 1 BASE a day, Keep the doctor away.
Yo, when a relationship gets to the point yours was at, shit gets hard all of a sudden. I know, I'm doing it right now. There's not much you can do, just live your life, chill out, have a beer, smoke a spliff, drink some Base(Red Bull really is much better!), go out with your friends, spend some time with the bros whose names you've probably forgotten cuz you spent too much time with the woman, and just go on with it. If/when she comes back, you might realize that you don't want her back. And if that happens, that's ok.
'I've had some good sex, but it's not very reliable. You can't phone up the sex report, ya know? You can phone up the snow report'...Crucial Mike
Man, take off on this girl. I had a girl that dump me the first time after 2 years, then she came back 5 months later...I was a sucker and went out with her again..she dumped me again...it's been a year since and she's been begging me for the past year to get back with her. Waste of time I say...there's so many girls out there man....fuck, girls are fuckin dumb anyway. FUCK EM
Plus..the casual sex route is wayyy better when your young.
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I feel bad for you...I know how it is. But if she says ' I don't love you' etc., and other things to hurt you...then well she's probably not the best girl ever. Which can be reallly hard to get over when you've been attracted to her for soo long and have grown accostomed to being with her.
well, she prolly didnt say that to hurt me, but cuz she appreciated me. When we were together, she told me a lot of time that a lot of girl would be with me just to have some stuff and for the image, and not for who i am( I gave her skis, and lots of clothing and lots of stuff) I am the kind of man that gives a lot to the girl i love.
And she could have stayed with me just just to enjoyed me, but when she suddenly realised that she doenst love me as she did...she told me right away..so i think it wasnt to be mean, and that there is still respect between us.. Drink 1 BASE a day, Keep the doctor away.
Ya I guess it's all up to her right now but I think the only thing you can do is make sure you don't do anything stupid that would like prevent future being back together so I'd just be cool to her and maybe tell her friends how much she meant to you and stuff so they get jealous that their friend has someone who cares for her like that and all, and maybe they'll persuade her,..
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maybe it has something to do with her leaving for a few months, like maybe she is trying to seperate herself from you just so its not as hard when she goes away... if this is the case then she prolly will get back together with you when she gets back, as long as she doesnt meet some mexican... just kidding bro discuss that with her
What the hell were they doing with a car on the moon?... havent they gone far enough?
I didn't read much of that...but how old are the two of you. Your maturity levels will be of great importance...
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In my opinion it's probably because she is going away, and doesn't want the emotional ties or commitments of having a boyfriend, and long-term relationship. I would do the same if I was her. Unless I was extremely crazy about the person.... It's best to get over it, which is impossible. I'd be worried she be sleeping with other guys while in Mexico and etc.... so, really you're screwed Julian, there is nothing you can do.... and if you ever get back with her, this moment will always be in the back of your head. The relationship will never be the same again....