In case you were wondering about that borderline moment;
its not gay if:
1. you think it is a guy, but it is really a girl
2. you think it is a girl, but it is really a guy
3. you wear a condom, because your not touching bare skin.
4. you give (anal)
5. you receive (oral)
6. you wear girls Boy shorts, because their Boyshorts
7. you were on meth/payote
8. you are playing slip and slide in the shower and you end up on top of another man with your thing in his...because you are just playing a game.
9. you are unable to participate in gay activities due to chap lips. Even though you might want to participate, your lips are chapped so you did not. Therefore you did nothing gay.
10. you are brothers. Then it is just FUCKED UP!
feel free to add any